What is Original Sin? Is it Important Today?

It’s one of the most familiar and mysterious stories in the Bible: a beautiful garden, a cunning serpent, a forbidden fruit—and a decision that forever altered the course of human history. But what really happened in the Garden of Eden? What is original sin, and why does it still matter today? And the question many quietly wonder: should Eve have given Adam the apple?

Let’s explore the deeper meaning behind this story and what it reveals about our hearts, our choices, and the grace of God.

Understanding the Garden: A Story of Beauty and Boundaries

Before we get into the idea of original sin, we need to understand the setting. The Garden of Eden wasn’t just a picturesque paradise—it was a place of perfect harmony between God, humanity, and creation. Adam and Eve lived in complete relationship with their Creator. They had meaningful work, purpose, and freedom—but not without boundaries.

God gave one command: “And the Lord God commanded the many saying, ‘Of every tree of the garden you may free eat; but of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil you shall not eat, but in the day that you eat of it you shall surely die” (Genesis 2:16–17, NKJV).

This wasn’t about fruit—it was about trust. Would Adam and Eve trust that God’s boundaries were for their good, or would they seek wisdom on their own terms?

What Is Original Sin?

Original sin is a theological term that refers to the fallen condition of humanity inherited from Adam and Eve. It’s not just the first sin—it’s the beginning of a spiritual brokenness that touches every human heart.

Romans 5:12 NKJV says, “Therefore, just as through one man sin entered the world, and death through sin, and thus death spread to all men because all sinned...”

In other words, when Adam and Eve sinned, they opened the door for sin and death to enter the human story. Their rebellion brought a separation from God, a distortion of human nature, and a world that no longer functioned as it was meant to.

Original sin means we are not born spiritually neutral. We are born with a bent toward selfishness, pride, and mistrust of God. As Psalm 51:5 NKJV says, “Behold, I was brought forth in iniquity and in sin my mother conceived me.”

This doesn’t mean we’re all as bad as we could possibly be. But it does mean that sin is deeply rooted in us—it’s a heart condition, not just a list of bad behaviors.

The Temptation: Did God Really Say?

In Genesis 3, we meet the serpent—crafty, cunning, and deceptive. He doesn’t attack with brute force. Instead, he plants a seed of doubt: “Did God really say…?” (Genesis 3:1).

With just a few words, he twists God’s command and shifts the focus from God’s generosity (“you may eat from any tree…”) to restriction (“you can’t eat this one?”). His strategy is one we still recognize today—get people to doubt God’s goodness, and they’ll soon doubt His word.

Eve listens. She adds to the command (“we must not touch it”) and begins to question whether God might be holding something back. The fruit looks pleasing. It seems like it could make her wise. And so, she takes it.

An Aside About Eve & the Fruit

Many years ago, in a Bible study class, we were studying Genesis. We got to Adam and Eve, original sin, etc. The discussion was very lively on the entire topic. At one point, I had a funny thought. Should Eve have shared the fruit with Adam? 

If Eve hadn't shared the fruit with Adam, women probably would have ruled over men. Many women would be happy with that setup! 

Now, back to the serious discussion! 

Who’s at Fault: Adam or Eve?

It’s easy to make Eve the villain in this story. For centuries, she’s often carried the blame for what went wrong. However, the Bible gives us more details and greater accountability.

Genesis 3:6 NKJV says, “She also gave to her husband with her, and he ate.”

Adam was with her. He wasn’t far off, unaware of the conversation. He was present, silent, and passive. He heard the lie, saw the choice, and joined in.

So, should Eve have given Adam the fruit? No—she shouldn't have, and she shouldn’t have eaten it either. But just as importantly, Adam shouldn't have taken it. He wasn’t deceived. He chose disobedience.

This shared failure reflects a shared human condition: we are all prone to follow instead of lead, to go silent when we should speak, and to choose our own way over God’s.

The Fallout: What Sin Does to Us

As soon as they eat the fruit, Adam and Eve’s eyes are opened—but not in the way they expected. They feel shame. They cover themselves. They hide from God. What was once innocent and free is now marked by fear and guilt.

God calls to them, not in anger, but in pursuit: “Where are you?” (Genesis 3:9). He knew what had happened, but He still sought them out.

When questioned, Adam blames Eve—and indirectly, God: “The woman you put here with me…” (Genesis 3:12). Eve blames the serpent.

It’s a cycle we know well: sin, shame, hiding, blame.

The consequences are real. Pain enters the world—pain in childbirth, pain in work, pain in relationships. The ground is cursed. Death becomes part of the human experience. And worst of all, Adam and Eve are sent out of the garden, away from the Tree of Life and God’s presence.

The Hope Hidden in the Curse

And yet, even in the middle of judgment, there’s a thread of grace.

In Genesis 3:15 NKJV, God speaks to the serpent and makes a mysterious promise: “And I will put enmity between you and the woman, and between your seed and her Seed; He shall bruise your head and you shall bruise His heel.”

This is often called the “first gospel”—the first whisper of redemption. One day, someone would come from Eve’s line who would crush the serpent’s head. It’s a prophecy pointing forward to Jesus.

Why Original Sin Still Matters Today

You might wonder, “Why does this ancient story matter now?” Because it explains so much about the human experience.

Why do we struggle with selfishness? Why do we hurt the people we love? Why do we chase things that never satisfy? Why do we feel this deep ache for something more?

Original sin shows us that the problem isn’t just out there—it’s in here – within us. We’re not just people who make bad choices. We’re people in need of transformation.

But here’s the good news: God didn’t leave us in that condition. The same God who called to Adam and Eve still calls to us. The same grace that covered their shame is available to cover ours.

Jesus: The Second Adam

Romans 5 draws a beautiful contrast between Adam and Jesus.

“For as by one man’s disobedience many were made sinners, so also by one Man’s obedience many will be made righteous.” (Romans 5:19 NKJV)

Jesus is often called the “Second Adam” because He came to reverse the curse. Where Adam failed, Jesus succeeded. Where Adam disobeyed, Jesus obeyed. Where Adam brought death, Jesus brings life.

Through His life, death, and resurrection, Jesus offers us a new start—a new nature, a restored relationship with God, and the promise of eternal life.

What This Means for You and Me

We don’t have to carry the weight of Adam and Eve’s sin forever. We don’t have to stay stuck in cycles of shame or self-blame. In Jesus, we are invited into a new story—one of healing, freedom, and hope.

But it begins with recognizing the truth: we need a Savior. Original sin humbles us. It reminds us we can’t fix ourselves. But it also drives us to the One who can.

Reflection Questions

• Where do I see myself in Adam and Eve’s story?

• Have I ever doubted God’s goodness or twisted His commands?

• Am I tempted to blame others instead of owning my choices?

• How do I respond when I’ve made a mistake—do I hide, or do I run to God?

• What would it look like to trust God’s boundaries as loving rather than limiting?

Final Thoughts: A Story of Grace

At first glance, the story of original sin can feel heavy and hopeless. But when we look closer, we see that even in humanity’s worst moment, God’s grace was already at work.

He sought Adam and Eve. He clothed them. He promised redemption. And He does the same for us.

So, should Eve have given Adam the apple? No. But the real question isn’t about what she did—it’s about what we will do with the truth we now know.

Will we continue to hide? Or will we let God find us, forgive us, and lead us home? Should Eve have shared the fruit with Adam? Share your thoughts in the comments section below or via email! 

God bless,

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The Truth of God's Grace

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For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast. 

— Ephesians 2:8–9 NKJV

A Foundation Built on Grace

Grace is the bedrock of the Christian life. Without it, we would still be trying to earn our salvation—striving, performing, and always falling short. But the truth of God’s grace changes everything. It reorients our understanding of who God is, who we are, and how we live each day. Ephesians 2:8–9 cuts through every illusion of self-reliance and reminds us that salvation is not a prize for the worthy but a gift for the believing.

These verses stand at the heart of the gospel. They speak to the unearned, undeserved, and lavish kindness of God toward sinners. Grace is not a reward; it’s a lifeline. It’s not payment for effort; it’s mercy for the broken. A mercy God grants to each of us (the broken) freely.

What Grace Is—and Isn’t

In our culture, it’s easy to confuse grace with niceness, leniency, or a vague sense of goodwill. But biblical grace goes deeper. It’s not just God being kind—it’s God giving us what we could never deserve: forgiveness, acceptance, new life, and a place in His eternal kingdom.

Titus 3:5–7 NKJV elaborates on this:

“But when the kindness and the love of God our Savior toward man appeared, not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to His mercy He saved us, through the washing and regeneration and renewing of the Holy Spirit, whom He poured out on us abundantly through Jesus Christ our Savior, that having been justified by His grace we should become heirs according to the hope of eternal life.”

In other words, grace is God’s initiative, not ours. Salvation is a work of God’s love and mercy. It’s not based on human merit or good works. Jesus is the means by which God’s love and salvation are made available to us. Through God’s grace, we are declared righteous and given the secure hope of eternal life as His heirs. 

This is God’s plan for salvation and it’s a gift from God, received by faith, empowered by the Holy Spirit. The result is the transformation of a person’s life and a secure eternal future. 

Why We Struggle with Grace

Despite how beautiful this truth is, many of us struggle to fully receive it. Why?

Because grace goes against everything the world teaches us. From a young age, we’re taught to earn rewards, prove our worth, and achieve success. We are praised for good grades, promotions, and accomplishments. But grace says: “You can’t earn this—and you don’t have to.”

This can be unsettling. We’d often rather rely on our spiritual “to-do” lists—praying more, reading more, serving more—as if these can somehow guarantee God’s favor. But grace doesn’t operate on merit. As Ephesians 2:8-9 NKJV reminds us:

“For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast.”

The very act of trying to earn God’s grace shows our spiritual bankruptcy and our deep, desperate need for a salvation that comes as a pure, unmerited gift from God. 

The Gift That Transforms

Grace doesn’t leave us where it finds us. It saves us, yes—but it also shapes us. It teaches, trains, and transforms.

For the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men, teaching us that, denying ungodliness and worldly lusts, we should live soberly, righteously, and godly in the present age...

— Titus 2:11–12 NKJV

When we receive God’s grace, it begins a lifelong work in us. We stop performing to be accepted and start obeying because we are loved. Grace empowers us to pursue holiness not out of guilt but out of gratitude.

This transformation isn’t always dramatic or instant. Sometimes, grace looks like getting up again after failure. Other times, it means releasing guilt we’ve carried for far too long. In all things, grace whispers: You belong to Me, and nothing can change that.

Grace in Our Everyday Lives

Understanding grace is one thing—living in it is another. The truth is, we all have moments when we feel like we’re not enough. Whether it’s falling short in relationships, struggling with anxiety, or wrestling with spiritual dryness, it’s easy to believe that we’ve somehow disappointed God.

But grace says otherwise.

Romans 5:1–2 NKJV gives us this assurance:

“Therefore, having been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom also we have access by faith into this grace in which we stand, and rejoice in hope of the glory of God.”

Peace with God. Not because we’ve done everything right, but because Christ has. This peace is not fragile. It holds steady in our weakness, our confusion, and even our doubt.

Living in grace means allowing this peace to settle deep into our hearts. It means starting our day not with a checklist, but with a reminder: I am saved by grace.

Extending Grace to Others

Grace, when truly received, always overflows.

When we understand the depth of God’s mercy toward us, we become merciful. When we realize how patient He is with our shortcomings, we grow in patience with others. Grace is not just a truth to receive—it’s a way to live.

Colossians 3:12–13 NKJV says:

“Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, longsuffering; bearing with one another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do.”

Forgiving others, serving in love, and showing kindness to those who don’t deserve it is grace in motion. This is how the gospel becomes visible in a world desperate for hope. 

Living Grace-Filled: A Reflection Exercise

Take a moment to reflect on this simple but powerful truth: You are saved by grace.

Now ask yourself:

• Where am I still trying to earn God’s approval?

• What areas of my life need the reminder that I am already accepted?

• Who in my life needs to experience grace through me?

Write down one area where you feel you’re “not enough.” Then beside it, write: God’s grace is enough. Let this be your reminder today.

Grace as Our Anchor

In life’s storms—when we fall, fail, or feel forgotten—grace remains the anchor. Not because we hold tightly to God, but because He holds tightly to us.

2 Corinthians 12:9 NKJV offers this beautiful promise:

“And He said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore most gladly I will rather boast in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.” 

There will be days when we don’t feel strong. Days when faith feels small. But God’s grace is not dependent on our strength—it flows strongest when we are weakest. When we feel unworthy, grace reminds us that Christ is our worth.

A Prayer for Today

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for the incredible gift of Your grace. Thank You that I do not have to earn Your love—it is freely given. Help me to live each day resting in Your mercy, not striving for perfection but trusting in Your promise. When I stumble, remind me that Your grace is sufficient. And help me to extend that same grace to others, reflecting Your love in my words and actions.

In Jesus’ name, Amen.

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Looking Ahead

Grace is just the beginning. It is the foundation upon which all other truths rest—joy, peace, strength, and hope. As we continue this journey together, we’ll explore these truths one by one. 

For now, take a moment to pause and give thanks for His grace. Let it be the truth that carries you forward today and every day.

Have you seen God’s grace in your life recently? Share in the comments—I’d love to hear your story.

God bless,

 

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Anchored: Finding Hope When the Storms Rage

Have you ever felt like life was sinking around you? No matter how hard you tried to stay afloat, the waves kept crashing in. Maybe it's he unexpected loss of someone you loved, a relationship torn by betrayal, or fear that refuses to let you sleep at night. Storms like these leave us gasping for anything that will hold us steady. 

What do we do in these seasons? How are we to respond? What can we hold onto for that solidity we need? 

I’ve been in situations where I wasn’t sure what to do next or who to turn to. During a season of storms, I came upon Hebrews 6:19. It turned out to be my lifeline. This verse points to hope in Christ as the anchor for our soul, firm and secure. It is Jesus who holds us steady, no matter how fierce the storm. 

“This hope we have as an anchor of the soul, both sure and steadfast, and which enters the Presence behind the veil…” (Hebrews 6:19 NKJV)

This verse follows a passage about God’s unchangeable promise and oath to Abraham—two things in which it is impossible for God to lie (Hebrews 6:17-18). Our hope isn’t based on wishful thinking, but on God’s guaranteed, eternal promise. That’s what makes it firm and secure. 

The Power of an Anchor

An anchor’s job seems so simple—to keep the boat from drifting, even in the wildest seas. In Hebrews 6:19, hope is described as that anchor. It’s not a fleeting emotion but a steadfast confidence in Jesus. Our Lord has entered God’s presence on our behalf (Hebrews 6:20). This hope doesn’t promise a storm-free life but offers stability when the winds howl. Our hope is rooted in Christ’s unchanging love and victory, giving us a foundation that won’t shift. 

Today’s Bible verse anchored me during a season of storms. The pain didn’t vanish, but knowing Jesus held me fast gave me courage to face each day. Psalm 33:20-22 NKJV became my prayer: “Our soul waits for the Lord; He is our help and our shield…Let Your mercy, O Lord, be upon us, just as we hope in You.” Hope was my tether, keeping me from being swept away in hopelessness. 

The Storms We Encounter

Storms come in many forms. For some, a health diagnosis that shakes their sense of security. For others, it’s a job loss, a fractured family, or the weight of anxiety that feels like a constant gale. Whatever your storm, Hebrews 6:19 assures us that hope in Christ is stronger than the chaos. It’s not about denying the waves but trusting in the One who holds the anchor. 

A story from Matthew 8:23-27 comes to mind, where the disciples were caught in a furious storm on the Sea of Galilee. Waves swept over the boat, yet Jesus slept peacefully. When they cried out, He calmed the storm with a word. That same Jesus is with you in your storm. He’s present, powerful, and ready to bring peace. Our hope rests in His ability to sustain us, even when the waters rage. 

How to Anchor Yourself in Christ When the Storms Rage

How do we hold onto this hope when life feels like it’s unraveling? Here are four ways that help me anchor my soul in Christ’s hope: 

Immerse in scripture: God’s Word is the chain linking us to the anchor (Christ). Bible verses like Romans 15:13 NKJV can get us through: “Now may the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that you may abound in hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” Writing your favorite scriptures on index cards and carrying them allows God’s promises to steady your heart. 

Lean into prayer: Prayer is where we cast our burdens on Jesus. Philippians 4:6-7 reminds us to bring our anxieties to God, and His peace will guard us. In my own situation, I’d pray simple prayers like, “Lord, anchor me in Your love today.” Those moments helped to calm me and put my focus on the Lord to get through the day. 

Stay in community: We’re not meant to face storms alone. During my struggle, a small group at church became my safe harbor. They listened, prayed, and reminded me of God’s faithfulness. Hebrews 10:24-25 urges us to encourage one another—find people who will point you to hope. 

Worship through the waves: Praising God and thanking Him shifts our focus from the waves to the One who calms them. Listening to worship music that reminds us Jesus is sovereign and in control. Worship doesn’t erase the storm but anchors us to His goodness and puts our focus where it should be—on Christ. 

A Hope That Holds Firm

What makes the hope of Hebrews 6:19 so powerful is its permanence. Human anchors—our plans, relationships, or achievements—can fail. But Jesus, our anchor is unshakable. He’s already overcome the world (John 16:33), and His victory secures our hope. Even when storms linger, we can trust He’s guiding us to safer shores. 

In my journeys through life’s storms, hope didn’t erase the hurt overnight but gave me the strength to move forward. Over time, I noticed God restoring my trust, bringing new friendships that reflected His love. Hope didn’t stop the storm; it carried me through it, proving that Christ’s anchor holds. 

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Your Anchor in This Moment

What storm are you facing today? Maybe it’s a loss that’s left you reeling, a fear that keeps you up at night, or a season of uncertainty. Take a moment to name it before God. Now, picture Jesus as your anchor—firm, secure, holding you fast. He’s not just with you; He’s gone before you, securing your place in God’s presence. 

Here’s a challenge: Choose one way to anchor yourself in hope today. Maybe it’s memorizing Isaiah 41:10 NKJV: “Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.” Or maybe it’s praying for peace or reaching out to a friend for prayer. Whatever you do, know that your soul is held by a hope that won’t let go. 

No storm is too wild, no wave too strong for the anchor of Christ’s hope. Today, let that truth hold you. You are not adrift—your soul is tethered to the Rock who cannot be moved. 

He only is my rock and my salvation; He is my defense; I shall not be moved. 

Psalm 62:6 NKJV

Reflection Question: What storm is threatening your peace, and how can you anchor yourself in Christ’s hope today? 

Prayer: Jesus, thank You for being my anchor in life’s storms. When I feel overwhelmed, help me cling to the hope You offer. Fill me with Your peace, guide me by Your Word, and surround me with Your love. Amen. 

How has Jesus helped you weather the raging storms this week? Comment below! 

God bless,

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Rooted in Christ

“I am the vine. You are the branches. He who remains in me and I in him bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing” – John 15:5 (NKJV)

In this week’s Substack devotional series, Flourishing with Faith, we immerse ourselves in the beautiful imagery of John 15:5, where Jesus presents Himself as the vine and us as the branches. This scripture is a heartfelt invitation to explore what it means to be deeply rooted in Christ, drawing life, strength, and purpose from our connection to Him. Being “rooted in the vine” is not merely a poetic metaphor—it’s a transformative call to abide in Jesus daily, cultivating a relationship that sustains and empowers us to flourish spiritually.

The Vine and the Branches: A Divine Connection

This image of the vine and branches wasn’t chosen at random. Jesus is drawing from a familiar biblical metaphor. It’s one His listeners would have recognized from the Old Testament, where Israel is often described as God’s vineyard. In passages like Isaiah 5 and Jeremiah 2, God is pictured as a gardener who lovingly plants and tends His people, expecting them to bear fruit. But instead of faithfulness and justice, they produce wild, sour grapes, which symbolize disobedience and spiritual barrenness. 

Against this backdrop, Jesus says, “I am the true vine” (John 15:1). He’s saying that He is everything Israel was meant to be: faithful, fruitful, and fully connected to the Father. And it is Jesus who invites us to be branches on His vine, to receive our spiritual life from Him.

The metaphor is clear: Jesus is our source of life. Just as a branch cannot survive on its own, we cannot thrive spiritually apart from Him. The fruit we bear: love, patience, goodness, lasting purpose, comes not from striving but from staying connected to Christ. It’s like the grape branch must remain connected to the vine to be fruitful. 

This connection is not a one-time event but a continuous act of abiding. The Greek word for “abide” is “meno” (Strong’s #G3306). Abide means to remain, to dwell, endure, be present, stand, tarry (for), and stay closely connected. It’s an intentional choice to align our hearts, minds, and actions with Jesus, allowing His life to flow through us. 

When we abide, we tap into the divine source of love, wisdom, and strength, enabling us to live out God’s purpose for our lives. It’s only through Jesus that we can have a relationship with the living God. Apart from Him, as John 15:5 reminds us, we can do nothing of eternal value.

What Abiding Looks Like in Everyday Life

In our fast-paced, distraction-filled world, abiding in Christ can feel challenging. Our schedules are packed with work, family, and endless notifications, leaving little room for spiritual reflection. Yet, abiding is not about adding more tasks to our to-do lists; it’s about weaving our connection with Jesus into the fabric of our daily lives.

Prayer as a Lifeline

Prayer is one of the most powerful ways to abide in Christ. It’s not just about presenting requests but about communing with God, sharing our joys, fears, and dreams. Prayer is a two-way conversation where we talk with God and listen to what He has to say. A simple morning prayer, a whispered plea during a stressful moment, or a quiet evening of gratitude can anchor us to the vine. 

If you’re new to prayer, try setting aside five minutes each day to sit in God’s presence, listening as much as you speak. As you become more comfortable with prayer, you’ll spend more time with our Lord. You’ll find five minutes won’t be enough! 

But don’t feel bad if you’re just starting out. Praying can feel awkward in the beginning. The key is to come before the Lord with intention. The intention is to connect with Him, talk with Him, and listen to what He has to say. Starting with five minutes is a great way to begin! 

Immersing in Scripture

God’s Word is another vital channel for abiding. The Bible is not just a book of instructions but a living revelation of God’s heart to us. Reading and meditating on scriptures like John 15:5 allows us to internalize Jesus’ teachings and align our lives with His truth. Consider keeping a journal to record insights from your Bible reading, noting how God speaks to you through His Word.

Surrender and Obedience

Abiding also involves surrendering our will to God’s will. This can be as simple as choosing forgiveness over resentment or as significant as following a calling that feels daunting. Obedience, even in small matters, deepens our connection to the vine, as it reflects our trust in Jesus’ guidance. 

Reflect on an area where God might be asking you to step out in faith—what would it look like to say “yes” to Him?

The Fruit of Abiding

When we remain rooted in the vine, we bear fruit that glorifies God and blesses others. This fruit is not something we produce through our own efforts but a natural outcome of our connection to Christ. Galatians 5:22-23 describes the fruit of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control—as evidence of a life transformed by God’s presence.

Imagine a branch heavy with grapes, vibrant and full of life. That’s the picture of a believer who abides in Christ. Our love becomes more selfless, our joy more resilient, and our peace more unshakable. This fruit doesn’t just benefit us; it impacts those around us, drawing others to the beauty of a life rooted in Jesus.

Challenges to Abiding

Despite the beauty of abiding, we often face obstacles that threaten to disconnect us from the vine. Busyness can crowd out time for prayer, while doubt or fear can make us question God’s presence. Sin, too, can create distance, as unconfessed struggles weigh on our hearts.

To overcome these challenges, we must be intentional. Regular self-examination can help us identify areas where we’ve drifted. Ask yourself: Are there distractions pulling me away from Jesus? Am I harboring bitterness or pride? Confession and repentance are powerful tools to restore our connection, allowing God’s grace to flow freely once more.

A Practical Plan for Abiding

This week, let’s commit to strengthening our connection to the vine. Here are some practical steps to help you abide in Christ:

1. Set a Daily Anchor Point: Choose a specific time each day for prayer and scripture reading, even if it’s just 10 minutes. Consistency builds intimacy.

2. Practice Presence: Throughout the day, pause to acknowledge God’s presence. A quick prayer or a moment of gratitude can recenter you.

3. Join a Community: Connect with other believers who can encourage you to stay rooted in Christ. Share your journey in a small group or with a trusted friend.

4. Reflect and Journal: At the end of each day, write down one way you experienced God’s presence or saw His fruit in your life.

As you implement these practices, trust that God is at work, shaping you into a branch that bears abundant fruit. Your faith will deepen, your heart will align with His, and your life will become a testament to His sustaining power.

A Call to Flourish

John 15:5 is both a promise and a challenge. It assures us that when we abide in Christ, we will bear much fruit, but it also reminds us that apart from Him, our efforts are futile. We can do nothing for our Lord on our own. As we navigate this week, let’s embrace the call to be rooted in the vine, drawing life from Jesus in every moment.

Take time to pray, asking God to reveal any areas where you need to reconnect with Him. Meditate on John 15:5, letting its truth sink deep into your soul. And as you abide, watch for the fruit God produces—fruit that will not only transform you but also shine as a light to those around you.

Reflection Question: What is one practical step you can take this week to abide more fully in Christ? Share your thoughts in the comments or on social media with #FlourishingWithFaith. Let’s flourish together, rooted in the true source of life.

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Dying to Sin: The Lenten Road to Resurrection Victory

Lent can sometimes feel more like running a marathon. It’s 40 days of saying “no” to our wants and wrestling with habits we’d rather ignore. Denying ourselves in any way can feel like gritty, unglamorous work. We’re about halfway, with Easter still a few weeks off. By now, the Lenten process can wear thin. We may wonder why we’re working through Lent in the first place. 

Then, all at once, 1 Peter 2:24 cuts through the haze like a lifeline: “...who Himself bore our sins in His own body on the tree, that we, having died to sins, might live for righteousness—by whose stripes you are healed.” This verse reminds us that Lent isn’t about punishment—it’s a practice—it’s about penance and repentance. Every sacrifice, every “no,” is a step toward the resurrection, where sin loses and we win. 

The Weight of the Cross

Let’s take a look at this scripture a piece at a time. “He himself bore our sins in His body on the tree.” What comes to mind when you read this verse? Jesus was beaten and scourged and then had to drag the cross up the hill to Golgotha. Imagine splinters digging into His shoulders—the weight of every lie, every betrayal, every dark thought pressing down on His bleeding, battered body. 

He wasn’t only bearing the sins of the jeering crows or the Roman soldiers. Christ bore the sins of all mankind—including our sins—yours and mine. That includes every piece of gossip we’ve listened to or spread, grudges we’ve nursed since Christmas, and the apathy that keeps us from loving like we should. 

The tree (the cross) was brutal—it wasn’t only an execution device. It was a transaction. Jesus paid our debt, right there, with His own flesh and blood. 

Dying to Sin: The Call

But why did Jesus take on our sins? “That we might die to sin and live in righteousness.” This is the foundation of the verse and Lent. Jesus didn’t drag our guilt to Calvary so we could wallow in it. He did it to set us free. “Die to sin” isn’t a poetic proclamation—it’s a call to action. 

Paul writes about this when he says, “Or do you know that as many of us were baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into His death? Therefore we were buried with Him through baptism into death, that just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, even so we also should walk in newness of life.” (Romans 6:3-4 NKJV)

Sin’s like a parasite that latches onto us, whispering that we can’t change, that we’re stuck where we’re at. Lent says otherwise. When we fast from chocolate or social media, it’s not about the thing itself. It’s about breaking the hold it has over us. It’s dying to the idea that we need that comfort and distraction to survive. Christ’s death makes it possible, while our choices make it real. 

Lent as a Mirror

Consider how Lent mirrors that dying. We’re about halfway through to Easter. Maybe you’ve been fasting from something tangible: meat on certain days or a glass of wine each night. Or maybe it’s deeper: biting your tongue instead of snapping back or carving out ten minutes for prayer instead of watching your favorite program on Netflix. 

Each act is a little death—a rejection of sin’s claim on us. Take anger, for instance. You’re stuck in traffic, late again, and the guy in front cuts you off. The old you would have stewed, maybe muttered some bad words. But Lent’s teaching you to let it go—not because it doesn’t sting, but because Jesus already took that sting to the cross. You’re dying to that impulse and choosing to live in God’s righteousness instead. 

Living to Righteousness

That’s the thing—living to righteousness. This isn’t a vague, churchy goal. It’s more practical than that. It’s the coworker you forgive even when they don’t apologize or the extra dollar you drop in the collection plate on Sunday. Maybe it’s the patience you muster when your child spills juice for the third time today. 

Righteousness isn’t perfection. Instead, it’s a direction and a goal. Righteousness is aiming your life at something better, something God-shaped, because Jesus cleared the way. Lent’s 40 days are a boot camp for that life. Every time we say no to sin, we flex a muscle we didn’t know we had. It’s a muscle powered by the cross and our precious Lord’s sacrifice for our sins. “For He made Him who knew no sin to be sin for us, that we might become the righteousness of God in Him.” (2 Corinthians 5:21 NKJV)

The Hard Truth

Let’s be honest: dying to sin isn’t a cozy and comfortable process. It’s not all warm and fuzzy. It feels like dying. That’s why Lent drags sometimes. We’re not just giving up habits; we’re giving up pieces of ourselves we’ve clung to for years. Pride’s a big sin—it’s harder to get rid of than caffeine. Maybe you’re the type that hates admitting you’re wrong. Instead, you double down in arguments, even when you know you’re not correct.

This is the mirror of Lent. It shows you that stubborn streak and dares you to let it go. Or fear—another quiet killer. You don’t pray because you’re scared God won’t answer. You hoard time and money because trusting feels risky. Jesus bore those sins, too. The cross says you don’t have to carry them any more. Jesus took our sins on Golgotha. 

Resurrection: The Victory Lap

Here’s where the resurrection overturns the script of sin. Lent’s not the endgame—it’s the road to the cross, with Easter and Christ’s resurrection as the victory. When Jesus walked out of the tomb, He didn’t just beat death; He beat sin! It’s done. Finished. The empty tomb proves that sin doesn’t own us unless we let it. That’s the win we’re working toward. 

Every Lenten sacrifice, every moment we choose to love is a down payment on Christ’s victory. We haven’t earned this victory. Jesus already did it for us. We’re living His victory, step by step, through Lent and beyond, through the choices we make every second of our lives. 

Why is Lent So Hard? 

Lent seems like such a massive challenge because of our innate human nature. Sin sticks to us like damp clothes after a rainstorm. We trip, backslide, and wonder if we’re making any progress. But 1 Peter 2:24 isn’t a pep talk; it’s a promise. “He Himself”—not us, not our willpower— Christ did the work on our behalf. 

Our job is to follow and trust the One who carried our sins to the tree. Only He has the strength to carry us through Lent. It’s not about being flawless by Holy Week; it’s about being faithful. One day, one choice, one death to sin at a time. 

We’re Not Alone on the Road

We’re not traveling Lent alone. Lent’s a communal journey—40 days modeled after Christ’s 40 days in the desert. He faced temptation and won; we can, too, with His help. Lean on your people. Tell a friend what you’re dying to this week—accountability sharpens the edge. Take confession if you’re Catholic. 

Confession is penitence; we show we’re sorry for our sins. Repentance shows God that we’ve changed our minds and behaviors. We acknowledge our sinfulness and ask for His forgiveness. We turn away from sin and toward the One who loves us with an eternal love.

A Challenge

We’re halfway to Easter! It’s coming, but the road’s still challenging. That’s OK. The resurrection’s victory isn’t just a future hope—it’s a present power. Every time you die to sin, you’re living proof it’s real.

Pick one thing this week—one habit, attitude--one habit you’ve let slide. Pray about this, and let our Lord know you want to stop this habit. Ask Him to forgive you and help you overcome this issue.  Don’t do this because you have to, but because you can and want to. Do this because you want to turn to our Lord. He is ready to offer forgiveness when we genuinely seek Him. 

Lent seems like a long process, but it’s leading somewhere glorious—Easter and the resurrection. Jesus bore our sins so we wouldn’t have to. Choose to step into victory, one rough “no” at a time. You won’t be disappointed, and you may be surprised to meet Jesus Christ in the process. 

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Loving Your Enemies as a Lenten Sacrifice & Christian Discipline

 

We’re in the midst of Lent (as I write this) and am following my free Lenten Prayer Journal and Lenten devotions on Substack. Today’s scripture seems like a strange fit for Lent, but it’s the perfect verse once we take a deeper look at it. 

Luke 6:27-28 NKJV tells us, “But I say to you who hear: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, and pray for those who spitefully use you.” How does this verse hit you? I’m wondering if God’s asking us for something tougher than our usual practice of somewhat tolerating or ignoring our enemies. Loving our enemies? That’s probably not a sacrifice you’ve penciled into your Lenten plan, but maybe it’s one each of us needs. 

Love Your Enemies--Really? 

I don’t know about you, but this passage hits me like a brick. Jesus is preaching the Sermon on Plain (Luke 6:20-49), right after blessing the poor and calling out the comfortable. It’s not an easy, warm read. It’s core to His kingdom. Love your enemies? Do good when they hate you? What comes to mind? 

Do you think of the coworker who stabbed you in the back last year, the friend who ditched you when you needed them, the family member whose snide remark still rankles? What do you do when this happens? Do you shut down, stew, or them facing a similar situation? 

If so, you’re human—we’re all human and our natural inclination is to avoid, shut down, ignore those who hurt us. But Jesus says, “No—love them. Do good to them. Bless them.” We may become struck with shock, guilt, and other unpleasant emotions. How are we supposed to love those who hurt us so deeply? We need to look to Jesus’ example. 

Jesus’ Radical Call

Jesus’ call isn’t a gentle suggestion—it’s a seismic shift. He speaks these words in His Sermon on the Plain, just after blessing the poor and hungry and warning those who rest in their abundance (Luke 6:20-26). The context matters: He’s unveiling a kingdom where power and privilege do not dictate worth, where love defies logic. 

In His Time, this upended a culture steeped in retribution and honor. Back then, the prevailing code of justice, rooted in the Old Testament, was “eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot...”. (Exodus 21:24). But Jesus Himself reframes it elsewhere saying, “You have heard that it was said, ‘An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.’ But I tell you not to resist an evil person. But whoever slaps you on your right cheek, turn the other to him also.” (Matthew 5:38-39 NKJV). 

Jesus’ teaching is a radical pivot—moving from retribution to restoration. In a culture where an eye demanded an eye, His words were revolutionary. Today, it confronts our natural impulses. Our instinct is to retreat, protect ourselves with silence or justified anger. These are human instincts. Yet, Jesus demands more: love, action, blessing, and prayer. We may feel like protesting by saying, “Surely not now, Lord.” But His call doesn’t bend to our convenience. 

Sacrifice Redefined in Lent

Lent has always been about sacrifice, a season to strip away what distracts us from God. Whatever you’ve sacrificed in this season—sweets, late night TV—may help you feel a quiet growth that comes with giving things up for the Lord. But what if the sacrifice God seeks this year isn’t about what you give up, but what you offer? Think about that for a moment. 

To love an enemy requires more than abstaining from resentment. It’s an active step into the fray, a choice to do good when every fiber of our being wants to resist. This feels profoundly Lenten—it’s a fast from the comfort of bitterness, a surrender of our right to hold a grudge. It’s not passive endurance; it’s a deliberate act of the will. Yet that’s the point—sacrifice isn’t meant to be easy. It’s meant to refine us, to prepare us for something greater, as James says, “My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing.” (James 1:2-4 NKJV) 

Care for Your Enemy

We can’t escape the cross when we think of praying for those who abuse us. Jesus didn’t just sacrifice His life—He gave it for those who despised Him. As they mocked and crucified Him, Jesus prayed, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do.” (Luke 23:34 NKJV)  That wasn’t a show of weakness on Christ’s part; it was strength beyond comprehension. He showed a love that absorbed hatred and returned grace. 

Lent leads us to Easter, to the resurrection that declares victory over every wound. If we’re to embody that hope, we must start here, in the messy reality of loving those we’d rather dismiss. Scripture echoes this elsewhere—Romans 12:20 NKJV urges, “If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him a drink; for in so doing you will heap coals of fire on his head.”  This is not a theoretical saying. It’s practical, tangible, and costly. Jesus lived it, and Lent calls us to follow even when our bodies and spirits balk. 

A Personal Reckoning

Many years ago, someone I trusted, someone very close to me, betrayed me and abused me emotionally and physically. Not only that, but people I thought were my friends spread rumors about me. They couldn’t believe this person had hurt me so badly. Instead, it was easier to believe I was the “bad person.” 

Deep anger became my companion. I developed a prickly personality to avoid being hurt again. Needless to say, I was not an easy or pleasant person to be around and I carried a weight of hurt, anger, and pain that spiritually weighed me down. I could have kept walking in this way—my hurt was definitely warranted. 

Instead, I began praying for all those who had hurt me, especially my betrayer and abuser. The process wasn’t easy by any means. It was like removing manner layers of onion. Each layer was painful, but it was necessary to give the hurt and pain to the Lord. This process took years. I kept praying for those who had hurt me. Over time, a release started to come with the process and prayers. 

The process didn’t erase the past, but it broke something open in me—a release, a handing over of the wound to God. It’s this that Jesus spoke of when He told us to be good to those who abuse us. This is not a forced affection, but freedom from the weight pain, hurt, and anger that I carried for too long. 

A Lenten Challenge for Us

So, here’s where this post has landed—for you and myself: let’s make this one of our Lenten sacrifices. Choose one person—not a faceless “enemy,” but someone specific who’s left a mark. Though they hurt you in the past, do something good for them. It’s doesn’t need to be elaborate. Pray for their peace and well-being each morning. Start right where you are and pray for this person throughout Lent. 

The Cost and the Promise

I know this is no light undertaking. Sacrifice demands something of us—time, energy, and pride. This is no ordinary task. To love in this way, when we’d rather withdraw, feels like too much. But Lent isn’t about feeling comfortable; it’s about what transforms us. 

Easter is ahead with the promise that hatred doesn’t win, that grace can redeem what’s broken. Like, you, I’m still learning this—there are some moments when I’d rather curse than bless. But we must try. We do this by taking one step at a time, trusting God to work where we falter. Will you join me? 

This Lent, let’s offer not just what we can spare (that expensive coffee habit, our favorite chocolate, or constant doomscrolling), but what we grip tightly. 

Let’s love, against the grain, and see how God shapes us through it and prepares us for the glory to come! 

Share how God’s working in you this Lent in the comments below! 

God bless,

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