We'd Love Your Input: Help Shape the Future of Roses in the Desert

Over the past three years, Roses in the Desert has grown into something more than I ever expected. It's become a space where we explore faith, Scripture, and what it means to walk with God in everyday life. Whether you've been here from the beginning or just found your way to its corner of the Internet recently, I'm so thankful for you! 

This community has always been about growing together in faith. But as the seasons change, it's good to pause, pray, and ask: What do you need most right now? 

That's where I'd love your help. 

A Short Survey to Guide What Comes Next

I've created a short, 2-3 minute survey to learn more about what's been most helpful to you--and what you'd like to see more of in the future. 

Your feedback will help me focus the blog on those topics and resources that best nurture your future growth. Your feedback is strictly anonymous--no email is necessary to take the survey!

Click here to take the survey on Google Forms.

In the survey, I'll ask things like: 

• Which types of posts (Faith, Bible Study, Spiritual Growth, Christian Living) have you found most helpful? 
• What format do you most enjoy (in-depth study, short devotional, personal story, etc.)? 
• What spiritual challenges or questions are you facing right now? 

Your answers will help me create content that meets you where you are--and draws us all closer to Christ. 

What's in it for you? Get a free copy of my spiritual habit tracker as a thank you for participating in the survey! 

The poll closes November 2nd! 

Why This Matters

When I started Roses in the Desert, I simply wanted to share what God was teaching me. The beauty, doubts, the lessons from Scripture that carried me through, etc. Along the way, I've realized something: 

The most meaningful growth happens in community. 

This isn't just my blog: it's our space for encouragement and truth. That's why your voice matters so much right now. 

Your feedback will shape what the next season on this blog looks like--from the topics I write about to the kinds of resources I create (like devotionals, Bible studies, or printables). 

A Note from My Heart

I've been praying for clarity about how best to serve this community and how to write what truly helps believers (you) grow in grace, not just what fills the page. 

Your responses will be part of that discernment process. Together, we can make Roses in the Desert an even more meaningful place to meet God's Word and apply it to real life. 

Thank you, truly, for taking a few minutes to share your thoughts. 

And thank you for being here; for reading, praying, or quietly reflecting. You're a blessing. 

If you'd like to stay updated on the results, make sure you're subscribed to the newsletter--I'll share what we learn and how it shapes the next season of posts! 

With gratitude and grace,

God bless,

Sherry

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Prayer as a Daily Rhythm

 

Faith Grows in the Everyday

What if your faith wasn’t built only on the big moments—revival services, retreats, or emotional worship experiences—but on the small, ordinary habits you practice every single day? Our spiritual lives are shaped less by occasional mountain-top experiences and more by the daily rhythms that draw us closer to God.

That’s why this month on the blog, we’re focusing on building daily faith habits. These are the simple, consistent practices that keep us rooted in God even when life is busy or overwhelming. We begin with the most foundational habit of all: prayer.

Prayer is more than a task on a checklist or a spiritual discipline we struggle to “do better.” Prayer is the rhythm of a heart tuned to God. It is the steady undercurrent of our lives, turning our thoughts, worries, joys, and decisions into an ongoing conversation with our heavenly Father.

This week, we’ll explore what it means to make prayer part of our daily rhythm. We’ll look at why prayer matters, address the misconceptions that hold us back, discuss practical ways to add prayer into our lives, and the benefits that come when we persevere. My hope is that by the end of this post, you’ll see prayer not as a heavy burden but as a life-giving rhythm that brings peace, strength, and intimacy with God.

Why Prayer Matters: More Than a Duty

The apostle Paul writes in 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 NKJV: “Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.”

Notice Paul doesn’t say, “Pray when you feel like it” or “Pray only when things get bad.” He says, pray continually. That sounds overwhelming, until we realize Paul isn’t talking about spending all day on our knees, but cultivating an attitude of constant awareness of God’s presence.

Prayer matters because it is the lifeline of our relationship with God. Imagine trying to maintain a friendship without ever talking to the person. Over time, the relationship would weaken. In the same way, our connection with God grows when we communicate with Him—honestly, regularly, and persistently.

Prayer also matters because it changes us. While we often approach prayer hoping to change our circumstances, God often uses prayer to shape our hearts. In the process of bringing our concerns to Him, we learn to trust, surrender, and see life from His perspective.

Think of prayer like breathing. Just as your body cannot thrive without air, your soul cannot thrive without prayer. It’s not optional for a healthy faith—it is essential.

Jesus as Our Example

When we wonder how to pray, we can look directly to Jesus. The Gospels repeatedly show Him slipping away to pray: early in the morning, in the wilderness, before important decisions, and even in His final hours before the cross (Mark 1:35; Luke 6:12; Matthew 26:36-39).

Jesus also gave us the Lord’s Prayer (Matthew 6:9-13) as a model, reminding us that prayer includes worship, surrender, petition, confession, and dependence. If the Son of God Himself prioritized prayer, how much more do we need it woven into our daily lives?

Breaking Down Misconceptions About Prayer

If prayer is so vital, why do so many of us struggle with it? Often, it comes down to misconceptions that weigh us down. Let’s tackle some of the most common ones.

“I don’t have time.”

Life is busy. Work deadlines, family responsibilities, school, errands—it feels like there’s no room for long prayer times. But the beauty of prayer is that it doesn’t have to be long to be meaningful. 

Whispering a two-sentence prayer while driving to work, pausing to thank God before a meal, or turning anxiety into a quick prayer during the day—all of these count. Prayer isn’t about length; it’s about consistency.

“I don’t know what to say.”

Many people feel they don’t have the right words, but God isn’t grading vocabulary. He desires sincerity, not eloquence. 

Romans 8:26 even assures us that the Spirit helps us in our weakness, interceding with “wordless groans” when we don’t know how to pray. Sometimes the simplest prayer—“Lord, help me”—is the most powerful.

“I don’t see results.”

We live in a culture of instant gratification, and when answers to prayer seem delayed, discouragement creeps in. However, Jesus taught the importance of persistence in prayer (Luke 18:1). 

Often, prayer isn’t about getting quick results but about cultivating faith and patience. Over time, as we look back, we often see how God was at work in ways we couldn’t recognize at the moment.

“I don’t feel worthy.”

Some avoid prayer because they feel too sinful, unworthy, or inadequate. But prayer is not about our worthiness—it is about God’s grace. 

Hebrews 4:16 tells us we can approach God’s throne with confidence because of Christ, not because of ourselves. Prayer isn’t for the “spiritually strong”—it’s for the weak who know they need Him.

“Prayer is only for emergencies.”

It’s tempting to treat prayer like a fire extinguisher; as something we break out only when life spirals out of control. But prayer is meant to be the steering wheel, not the spare tire. It’s how we walk daily with God, not just how we call for help in crisis.

How to Make Prayer a Daily Rhythm

The question, then, is how do we move from sporadic, crisis-driven prayer to a daily rhythm of conversation with God? Here are some practical ways:

1. Create Prayer Triggers

Link prayer to activities you already do. For example:

• When you brush your teeth in the morning, pray for a clean heart.

• When you check your phone, pause to thank God for one blessing.

• When you walk or commute, pray for the people you will interact with that day.

These “triggers” turn ordinary moments into sacred rhythms.

2. Start Small and Build Consistency

If you’re new to daily prayer, don’t feel pressured to begin with 30 minutes a day. Start with 3–5 minutes. Set aside a consistent time—perhaps first thing in the morning or before bed—and expand as your prayer habit grows.

3. Keep a Prayer Journal

Writing down prayers helps focus your thoughts and allows you to look back and see how God has answered over time. Journaling can also become a place for honest reflection, gratitude, and listening to God’s voice.

4. Pray Scripture

Sometimes we struggle to find words, but Scripture provides us with a language for prayer. Psalms are especially helpful. In the Psalms, you’ll find prayers of praise, lament, trust, and thanksgiving. Try praying through a Psalm this week, turning its verses into your own conversation with God.

5. Make Prayer Conversational

Prayer doesn’t have to be formal. Talk to God the way you would talk to a close friend. Share your struggles, joys, and even your ordinary thoughts. Then pause and listen. Prayer is not only speaking to God but also being still before Him, listening to what He has to say.

6. Invite Others In

Consider praying with a friend or family member, even briefly. It could be as simple as pausing to pray together before a meal or over the phone. Shared prayer strengthens both faith and community.

7. Create a Prayer Space

Having a specific place set aside for prayer, even if it’s just a favorite chair, a corner of your room, or a quiet spot outside, can make prayer more consistent. The physical space cues your heart and mind: this is where I meet with God. It doesn’t have to be elaborate, but making it intentional helps form the habit.

8. Use the ACTS Model

Another helpful tool is the ACTS model, which guides us through Adoration, Confession, Thanksgiving, and Supplication:

• Adoration: Begin by praising God for who He is.

• Confession: Humbly admit sins or shortcomings.

• Thanksgiving: Express gratitude for blessings, seen and unseen.

• Supplication: Bring requests for yourself and others.

Using this structure can make prayer feel more complete and help you stay focused, especially on busy days. It also reminds us that prayer is relational, not just a wish list.

The Spiritual Fruits of a Consistent Prayer Life

What happens when we build prayer into our daily routine? Scripture shows us the fruit that comes from consistent prayer:

• Peace in anxiety. Philippians 4:6-7 promises that when we present our requests to God with thanksgiving, His peace will guard our hearts and minds. Prayer doesn’t always change circumstances, but it changes us.

• Strength in trials. Luke 18:1 reminds us not to give up. Persistent prayer builds endurance, teaching us to lean on God’s strength when our own runs out.

• Closeness with God. Psalm 145:18 assures us that the Lord is near to all who call on Him. Daily prayer nurtures intimacy, helping us sense God’s presence in the ordinary and extraordinary alike.

Over time, these spiritual fruits create a steady faith—one that can withstand storms, celebrate joys, and find God’s hand in every season.

Encouragement to Start Small

Building daily prayer habits doesn’t happen overnight. Like learning an instrument or developing physical fitness, it requires steady practice. The good news is that even the smallest steps matter.

If prayer feels overwhelming, begin with this: pause once today to whisper, “Lord, I need You.” Do it again tomorrow. Add one more moment the next day. Soon, you’ll find prayer flowing naturally, not as a duty but as a rhythm of life.

Remember, God isn’t asking for perfection—He’s inviting you into relationship. He delights in every word you bring to Him, every small habit you form, every honest prayer spoken.

Even beyond our own lives, these daily rhythms can ripple outward, impacting families, workplaces, and communities, showing God’s faithfulness through consistent, faithful prayer.

Closing Thoughts

As we begin this month’s journey of building daily faith habits, let’s start with prayer—the heartbeat of our relationship with God. Prayer is not about performance but presence. It is the daily rhythm that keeps us connected, grounded, and strengthened in Him.

Closing Prayer:

Lord, teach me to make prayer a daily rhythm. Help me to turn to You in every moment—big or small—and to build a steady habit of conversation with You. Let prayer become the heartbeat of my faith, drawing me closer to Your presence each day. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

God bless,

If you'd like to learn more about praying without ceasing, be sure to check out The Practice of the Presence of God by Brother Lawrence!

This is a timeless spiritual classic by Brother Lawrence, a humble 17th-century monk who discovered a deep intimacy with God in the midst of everyday tasks. Through simple, heartfelt conversations and letters, he shares how to remain aware of God's presence not just during prayer, but throughout ordinary moments throughout the day (even while doing the dishses!). 

The book is available for free from Project Gutenberg's website (this link takes you to Project Gutenberg's site and the book listing. Just download the version you prefer or read it online). 

It's also available on Amazon (this is an affiliate link. If you choose to purchase through my Amazon affiliate link, I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. Thank you for supporting this work with your purchase). 

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Reflections on the Death of Charlie Kirk

Charlie Kirk Image by Gage Skidmore on flickr

When Violence Silences a Voice

Psalm 46:1 NKJV: God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. 

The post that was meant for today will come out tomorrow. Today, I want to focus on the senseless assassination of Charlie Kirk. 

Yesterday, a tragic shadow fell across the U.S. and the world. Charlie Kirk, a familiar voice in the world of politics and culture, was shot and killed while speaking at Utah Valley University. As reports confirm, it was a targeted attack, carried out by a sniper who struck him while he was simply answering questions during a public forum. 

He was just doing what so many of us take for granted: speaking, sharing, and engaging in the exchange of ideas. And now his voice has been silenced. 

I don’t bring this up to stir fear or to add fuel to the already burning fires of division in our country and world. My heart aches, and I know many of yours do, too. Instead, I want us to pause together and reflect on what such a senseless act means—for our nation, for our communities, for the world, and for our own hearts. 

Remembering Charlie Kirk and What He Stood For

Charlie Kirk was first a Christian, then a husband, and a father. He loved the Lord and had a faith that drove him to serve young people. He was a courageous truth-teller, passionate for bringing his faith and convictions into conversations, and a mentor to countless young people navigating college campuses. However, some saw him as a controversial figure whose sharp wit and words often sparked debate and division. Division was the last thing he wanted. 

Beyond the headlines and labels, Charlie Kirk was someone who believed in the power of God and ideas. He founded Turning Point USA with a vision of equipping students to think critically about politics, culture, and faith. He challenged what he saw as cultural drift and sought to encourage a rising generation to engage with peace, respect, and conviction. 

Charlie Kirk lived with purpose. He was committed to speaking boldly, shaping conversations, and standing firmly for the truth. 

In moments like these, we are reminded that even those we may see differently are still fellow image-bearers of God. Each of us deserves dignity, compassion, and prayer. His sudden death underscores not only the fragility of life but also the need to see one another as more than just positions or arguments. 

Violence Cannot Be the Answer

Political violence doesn’t just strike down one person—it wounds us all. It sends a chilling message that disagreement is dangerous, that words are not answered with words but with weapons and violence. That’s not how a healthy society survives and thrives. 

When I think about this, I’m reminded of James 3:5-6 NKJV: “Even so, the tongue is a little member and boasts great things. See how great a forest a little fire kindles! And the tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity. The tongue is so set among our members that it defiles the whole body, and sets on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire by hell.” 

The truth is that our words can bring healing, or they can deepen wounds. But no matter what, when words are answered with violence, the very fabric of trust between people is torn apart. 

We must be honest about what happened: a life was taken because of what Charlie Kirk represented, what he said, and what he believed. And when violence takes the place of dialogue, everyone loses—supporters and opponents alike, with divisions widening and deepening between us all. 

One more word: when someone we don’t care for passes away, it’s kinder not to say anything negative about them or rejoice in their death. Passing such judgment eventually comes back to haunt us. We’re reminded of this in Romans 2:1-3 NKJV: “Therefore you have no excuse, O man, every one of you who judges. For in passing judgment on another you condemn yourself, because you, the judge, practice the very same things.” Let’s remember this.

Our Call as Followers of Christ

For those of us who follow Jesus, this is a moment to look inward. How are we using our words? Are we speaking life, or are we tearing others down? Are we adding to the cycle of bitterness, or are we breaking it with love? 

Jesus said, “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God” (Matthew 5:9 NKJV). 

The world desperately needs peacemakers right now—not people who ignore the truth, but people who speak truth with gentleness and compassion. People who refuse to see opponents as enemies, and who resist the temptation to repay hate with hate. 

Romans 12:21 NKJV challenges us with these words: “Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.” 

What does it look like to overcome evil with good in moments like this? It may look like prayer for the grieving (yes—there is power in prayer!). It may look like guarding our own hearts from hatred. It may look like listening with humility, even when the voices clash. 

Forgiveness and Justice

Forgiveness may be one of the hardest words to bring up in the wake of such an attack. How can we speak of forgiveness when someone has committed such a terrible act? And yet forgiveness is central to the gospel message. 

Forgiveness doesn’t mean ignoring justice. Scripture is clear that God values justice: “He has shown you, O man, what is good; and what does the Lord require of you but to do justly, to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God?” (Micah 6:8 NKJV). 

Justice seeks accountability, truth, and righteousness. Forgiveness, on the other hand, frees the heart from the poison of hatred. 

In this moment, we pray that justice will be done—that those responsible will be found and held accountable. But as believers, we must also pray that our own hearts don’t become hardened, that we would not let bitterness take root. 

Hope Beyond Violence

When violence steals a life, it can feel like hope has been stolen, too. But as followers of Christ, we know that even in the darkest valleys, hope remains. 

Romans 8:38-39 NKJV gives us this assurance: “For I am persuaded that neither death nor life, nor angels nor principalities nor powers, nor things present nor things to come, nor height nor depth, nor any other created thing, shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.” 

Violence may silence a voice, but it cannot silence God’s love or end His work. Death may take a life, but it can’t take away the hope of the resurrection we have through Christ. 

This is the hope we cling to in moments like this: that God is still at work, still redeeming, still calling His people to live as witnesses of His light in a dark world. 

Choosing a Better Way

The assassination of Charlie Kirk is a painful reminder that some may hate so much that they are reduced to killing and suppressing the voice of anyone who doesn’t align with their beliefs. They also choose to rejoice at the death of another human being, who is an image-bearer of the living God. This is evil. 

Instead, let’s choose a better way and practice Christ’s love: 

• Pray for Charlie Kirk, his family, his friends, and all who are grieving. 
• Pray for our nation, that we might turn from anger and division toward wisdom and peace. 
• And pray for ourselves, that we would be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry (James 1:19). 

Because if violence continues to be normalized in our society, we lose far more than this man’s voice—we lose our witness, our civility, and our ability to love one another as Christ commanded. This applies to everyone on all sides and of all persuasions.

We are to love one another and to root out sin—we’re encouraged to examine ourselves, pray, and go to the sinner and speak the truth in love (Matthew 7:3-5; Matthew 18:15-17). Read the words of Jesus in these verses to see what He has to say. 

A Final Word

Today, I feel the weight of grief at the death of a great man. Yet I also hold onto hope. Hope that God can take even moments of darkness and use them to call His people back to the way of peace. Hope that we can be light-bearers in a world that too often reaches for the dark. 

Let’s honor Charlie Kirk’s memory by recommitting ourselves to be people of peace, people of courage, and people who reflect the love of Christ in a broken world.   

God bless,

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Anchoring the School Year in Faith

 

Embracing the Back-to-School Season with Faith

The back-to-school season sweeps into our lives like a gust of autumn wind, stirring up a flurry of activity and emotions. New schedules demand early mornings, supply lists seem endless, and the pressure to ensure our children thrive in their new classrooms can feel overwhelming. 

As parents, we juggle backpacks, lunchboxes, and our own anxieties about whether our kids will fit in, excel academically, or stay safe. In this chaotic transition, it’s tempting to let the logistics consume us—rushing to buy notebooks, coordinating carpools, or worrying about report cards. 

But as believers, we’re called to anchor this season in something deeper: faith in God’s promises. This year, let’s approach back-to-school with intentionality, rooting our families in the truths of Scripture that guide us through every challenge and triumph.

Finding Strength in God’s Word

The Bible offers timeless wisdom for navigating this season. Psalm 5:3 invites us to begin each morning with prayer: “Yahweh, in the morning you will hear my voice. In the morning I will lay my requests before you and will watch expectantly” (WEB). This verse isn’t just a suggestion; it’s a lifeline. 

Before the school bus arrives or the carpool line forms, we can lay our concerns—our children’s fears, our own uncertainties—before God, trusting He hears and responds. Proverbs 22:6 offers another anchor: “Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it” (WEB). This promise reminds us that our efforts to instill faith, even in the midst of homework battles or rushed mornings, are part of God’s long-term plan for our children.

Overcoming Anxiety with God’s Peace

When anxiety creeps in—about grades, friendships, or safety—Philippians 4:6-7 assures us, “In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus” (WEB). 

This Scripture isn’t a call to ignore real concerns but to bring them to God, who promises a peace that defies logic. As parents, this peace can steady us when we’re tempted to worry about our child’s performance or social struggles. It’s a reminder that God is sovereign, working in every detail of their school day.

Planting Seeds of Faith

As parents, we’re not just packing lunches or checking planners; we’re planting seeds of faith that God will water over time. Imagine starting each day with a simple prayer over your child’s backpack, asking God to guide their steps. 

Picture discussing a Bible story over dinner, as Deuteronomy 6:6-7 encourages: “These words, which I command you today, shall be on your heart; and you shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, when you walk by the way, when you lie down, and when you rise up” (WEB). 

These moments weave God’s presence into the fabric of your family’s routine, creating a spiritual anchor amid the chaos.

Cultivating Gratitude in Chaos

Modeling gratitude, as 1 Thessalonians 5:18 instructs, can transform the back-to-school experience: “In everything give thanks, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus toward you” (WEB). 

When you thank God for a teacher’s patience, a child’s small victory, or even a moment of calm in a hectic day, you teach your kids to see His hand in every detail. This practice shifts the focus from what’s overwhelming to what’s possible with God, fostering resilience and hope in your family.

Navigating Practical Challenges

The back-to-school season brings practical challenges, like homework struggles. James 1:5 promises, “But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him” (WEB). 

When evenings turn into battles over math problems or essays, God’s wisdom can guide you to respond with patience rather than frustration. It’s about more than getting the answers right; it’s about showing your child that challenges are opportunities to seek God’s help. 

Similarly, Psalm 91:1-2 offers comfort for our deepest fears: “He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. I will say of Yahweh, ‘He is my refuge and my fortress; my God, in whom I trust’” (WEB). 

Praying this over your children as they enter the schoolyard invites God’s protection over their physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being.

Strengthening Family Bonds

Faith isn’t just about surviving the school year; it’s about thriving in it. This season can be a time to strengthen family bonds, as Deuteronomy 6:6-7 suggests, by making time for faith-filled conversations. 

Whether it’s a quick prayer in the car or a bedtime reflection on God’s goodness, these moments create a sense of unity and purpose. They remind us that God is present in every early morning, every parent-teacher meeting, and every late-night study session. 

As you model trust for your children—choosing prayer over panic—they learn that God is their source of strength. When you celebrate small victories with gratitude, it shows them faith in action.

A Devotional Plan for the Season

Our devotional plan this week, shared on our Substack, is designed to help you live this out. Each day focuses on a Scripture to guide your family: 

• Starting with morning prayers (Psalm 5:3)
• Trusting God with your child’s future (Proverbs 22:6)
• Finding peace amid anxiety (Philippians 4:6-7)
• Praying for protection (Psalm 91),
• Cultivating gratitude (1 Thessalonians 5:18) 
• Seeking wisdom for homework (James 1:5)
• Strengthening family bonds (Deuteronomy 6:6-7). 

These devotionals include scripture reading, a devotional reading, three questions to spark discussion, and practical applications to make faith a tangible part of your routine. For example, you might pray Psalm 5:3 as a family before school, asking God to guide your child’s day. Or you could set aside one evening to share what you’re thankful for, inspired by 1 Thessalonians 5:18, turning a rushed dinner into a moment of connection.

Trusting God’s Faithfulness

The back-to-school season is more than a logistical challenge; it’s an opportunity to deepen your family’s faith. God doesn’t promise a stress-free year, but He promises His presence. 

As you pack lunches, review homework, or cheer at games, trust that He is working in every detail. Your prayers, your example, and your reliance on Scripture are shaping your children’s hearts in ways that will last far beyond this school year. Let’s commit to making this season a testimony of God’s faithfulness, anchoring our families in His unchanging truth.

God bless,

 

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Prayer for New Believers

Prayer is one of the most beautiful and powerful parts of the Christian life. Yet, for many new believers, prayer can feel confusing, intimidating, or even distant. You might wonder: How do I pray? Does God really hear me? What if I don’t know what to say?

If you’ve ever felt that way, you’re not alone. Prayer is not just a religious obligation—it’s an ongoing conversation with the loving God who made you. It’s a way to connect, grow, and experience His presence every day.

In this post, we’ll explore what prayer really is, why it matters, and practical ways to grow your prayer life. Whether you’re just starting out or want to deepen your connection with God, this guide will help you take confident steps forward.

What Is Prayer, Really?

At its heart, prayer is simply talking with God. Imagine speaking with your closest friend or trusted parent. You share your joys, struggles, hopes, and fears. Prayer is the same, except God already loves you perfectly and always listens.

Prayer can take many forms:

• Speaking your thoughts aloud or silently in your heart
• Listening quietly for God’s guidance
• Praising and thanking God for who He is
• Asking for help or wisdom, expressing our needs
• Confessing mistakes and seeking forgiveness
• Intercession for the needs of others
• Prayers can also be written in a journal or typed on a computer or tablet

The main thing to understand is that prayer is a form of communication with God. We need prayer not only to communicate with the Lord, but also to deepen our relationship with Him. Prayer is a privilege, not a duty we perform to gain God’s favor. 

How is Prayer a Privilege? 

Prayer’s a privilege because it allows us to connect with God. It’s His gift to us and a benefit that allows us to have a personal relationship with the living God. 

Prayer provides for us in these ways: 

• Grants direct access to God: through prayer, we have direct access to our Lord.
• Relationship with God: it’s also through prayer that we develop a living, lasting relationship with our heavenly Father. 
• God’s presence & response: the Lord listens to our prayers and responds. He offers comfort, guidance, and support even in the smallest details of our lives. 
• Spiritual transformation: prayer can also lead us to spiritual growth and transformation. It’s a process that develops and deepens over time spent with God. 

Does God Want to Hear from Us? 

“The Lord is near to all who call upon Him, to all who call upon Him in truth.” 

Psalm 145:18 NKJV

We were made to live with and experience God directly in the Garden. During that time, Adam and Eve enjoyed His direct presence until their rebellion. Rebellion always carries consequences. The result was that they became separated from the Lord’s direct presence. 

After the Fall, people began to pray. Prayer is an ancient practice. The first mention of something like prayer in the Bible is found in Genesis 4:26 NKJV: “And as for Seth, to him also a son was born; and he named him Enosh. Then men began to call on the name of the Lord.” This verse doesn’t say what made humans call out to God. However, it’s clear that they recognized God's essential role in their lives. And the Lord wanted to hear from His people. 

From that time to now, God wants to hear from us. He’s always listening and ready to spend time with us when we want to spend time with Him in prayer. 

God invites you to bring everything honestly to Him. You don’t need fancy words or a perfect formula. He wants a real relationship with the human He created--you.

The Invitation to Pray

One of the most encouraging verses about prayer is found in Matthew 7:7-8 NKJV:

"Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks, finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened. For everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks, finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened."

Here, Jesus reminds us that God welcomes our prayers. No matter who you are or what you’ve done, God invites you to come and talk with Him. The act of asking means you believe God cares and can help. The promise of seeking and knocking means that God is actively present and responds.

This invitation is amazing because it shows God’s desire for relationship. You don’t have to wonder if He’s too busy or distant. He’s ready to listen and respond with love.

Learning to Listen to God

Prayer isn’t only about talking — it’s also about listening. Psalm 46:10 says, “Be still, and know that I am God.” This means creating quiet moments to pause, open your heart to God’s presence, and listen to what He’s saying.

Listening can feel hard at first, especially when life is noisy. But the more you practice, the more you’ll recognize God’s gentle voice through Scripture, impressions, or peace in your spirit.

Begin by setting aside just 2-3 minutes of silence each day, inviting God to speak. You might be surprised at how this simple habit grows your awareness of Him.

Praying with Faith and Expectation

Mark 11:24 NKJV encourages us: “Therefore I say to you, whatever things you ask when you pray, believe that you receive them, and you will have them.”

Praying with faith means trusting that God hears you and will answer in the best way, even if it’s different from what you expect. Sometimes answers come immediately, other times through time, or in unexpected ways.

Faith in prayer doesn’t mean demanding things from God but trusting His goodness and timing.

Making Prayer a Lifestyle

Prayer is not just a once-a-day ritual or something we do only in church. 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 NKJV tells us: “Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.”

This means we can pray at any time—while driving, walking, working, or resting. Prayer becomes an ongoing conversation that is woven into our daily life.

Try choosing moments in your routine where you can pause and pray — maybe while washing dishes, on your commute, or before meals. These little habits make a big difference. Each moment spent in prayer grows your faith and deepens your relationship with our Lord.

The Role of the Holy Spirit in Prayer

What about the time you don’t know what to pray? One comforting truth is that you don’t have to have all the right words or know exactly what to pray. Romans 8:26 NKJV says:

“Likewise the Spirit also helps in our weaknesses. For we do not know what we should pray for as we ought, but the Spirit Himself makes intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered.”

The Holy Spirit is your helper and guide in prayer. When you feel lost for words or unsure what to pray, invite the Spirit to pray through you. This takes the pressure off and reminds you that God is involved in your conversation with Him.

Using Scripture in Prayer

Praying Scripture to God is a powerful way to connect with His promises and align your heart with His will. Psalm 119:105 NKJV says, “Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” 

You might find a verse that speaks to your situation, then use it as a prayer. For example, if you’re feeling anxious, pray Philippians 4:6-7, asking God for peace. The Psalms are especially helpful for new believers. There, you can find all kinds of emotions and thoughts expressed in deep ways that satisfy your soul. However, many other verses are also helpful when you need guidance in prayer. 

Praying the Scriptures helps ground your prayers in God’s truth and strengthens your faith.

Prayers of Thanksgiving and Praise

Finally, cultivating a habit of thanksgiving changes everything. Psalm 100:4 invites us: “Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name.”

Gratitude shifts our focus from problems to God’s goodness. Even on hard days, there’s always something to thank Him for—a breath, a friend, a moment of peace.

Try ending each prayer time with thanks and praise. You’ll notice your heart growing lighter and your trust deepening.

Practical Tips to Grow Your Prayer Life

Here are some simple ways to start or deepen your prayer journey:

• Set aside quiet time: Even 5 minutes a day, without distractions, can help build a solid habit.
• Keep a prayer journal: Write down your prayers, answers, and reflections. This encourages consistency and helps you remember God’s faithfulness.
• Pray Scripture: Choose a Bible verse daily and turn it into your prayer.
• Practice listening: Include moments of silence in your prayer time.
• Pray anytime: Talk to God throughout the day, sharing your thoughts and thanking Him.
• Join a prayer group: If you’re comfortable, praying with others can build encouragement and accountability.

Remember: Prayer Is a Journey

Like any relationship, prayer grows over time. You may have days when it feels easy and other times when it feels distant. That’s okay. God is patient and faithful, always inviting you closer.

If you’re struggling, don’t give up. Keep coming back, sharing honestly, and trusting the Spirit to guide you.

Closing Encouragement

As you practice prayer, remember Jesus’ promise: when you ask, seek, and knock, the door will be opened. You are never alone. God delights in your voice and longs to draw near.

Prayer is your lifeline, your refuge, and your connection to the One who loves you unconditionally. Embrace this beautiful gift today and watch how it transforms your faith and life.

Growing in Truth, Strength, & Grace: Week 4: Growing in Prayer

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• Four downloadable PDF files – one for the devotional, one for the workbook, a short ebook on prayer, and a study guide for the 10-week series. 

• 7-day devotional guide on building a personal prayer life

• Daily application prompts and guided reflection questions

This versatile bundle is easy to use! Use it digitally in PDF annotation apps like GoodNotes, Xodo, or print the files out for your binder or notebook. 

Whether you're new to prayer or seeking to deepen your relationship, this bundle provides the structure and encouragement to make prayer a natural, life-giving part of your daily walk with God. Or you can purchase the ebook separately! Head over to my Gumroad shop for your copy! 

God bless,

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How to Pray When You Don’t Feel Like It

Bible Verse: Trust in Him at all times, you people; pour out your heart before Him; God is a refuge for us. Selah

Psalm 62:8 NKJV

Prayer is the lifeline of a Christian’s faith. It’s a sacred conversation with God that strengthens, comforts, and guides us. Yet, there are seasons when prayer feels like an uphill battle. Perhaps you’re spiritually dry, overwhelmed by life’s demands, or simply too tired to form the words. You might even feel guilty about wondering if you’re failing in your faith. 

If that resonates with you, take heart: you’re not alone. Even King David cried out in desperation, “My soul thirsts for You…in a dry and weary land” (Psalm 63:1 NKJV). The good news? God meets us in our weaknesses. And there are simple, biblical ways to rekindle your prayer, even when it feels like a chore. 

Here are five practical, grace-filled steps to help you pray when you don’t feel like it. These ideas are designed to meet you where you are and gently guide you back to God’s presence. 

Start Small with the Jesus Prayer

When prayer feels overwhelming, long sessions can feel impossible. In these moments, simplicity is your friend. The Jesus Prayer is a short phrase you can say once or more. It’s a gentle way to reconnect with God. 

Rooted in the early church's tradition of the Jesus Prayer, “Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me” has long been used by monastic communities and laypeople alike. 

How to begin: 

Find a quiet moment and say the prayer. Repeat it a few times if you’d like. This small act of stillness can ground your spirit even if your heart feels heavy. 

You can use this prayer anywhere at any time. Try this: Say the Jesus Prayer for one week when you feel overwhelmed. Let it anchor you in God’s presence. 

Pray Scripture When Words Won’t Come

Sometimes, the hardest part of prayer is knowing what to say or feeling like your words fall flat. In those moments, God’s Word can speak for you. 

The Bible is full of heartfelt prayers you can borrow. The Psalms are especially rich, raw, honest, and deeply human. Psalm 23 begins, “The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want.” Or use the Lord’s Prayer (Matthew 6:9-13) as a framework. 

Try This Approach

Choose a verse that reflects your current need. If you’re anxious, start with Philippians 4-6-7. Read it slowly, out loud if you can. You can also personalize the prayer like this: “Lord, I’m anxious about my job. Help me to trust You and receive your peace.

Write it on a note card, journal it, or set it as your phone’s lock screen. Praying Scripture not only gives you words—it realigns your heart with truth. 

Use a Prayer Journal or Prompt

Distraction is one of the biggest barriers to prayer. A structured prompt or journal can help focus your mind and heart. 

A simple method is the ACTS format: 

• Adoration: Praise: God, You are faithful, even when I’m not 

• Confession: Honesty: I’ve let busyness keep me from You.

• Thanksgiving: Gratitude: Thank You for Your patience and grace. 

• Supplication: Requests: Help me make space for You tomorrow.

If you prefer a freer form, try writing a letter to God. Be honest. Tell Him why prayers feels hard—whether it’s doubt, grief, exhaustion, or something else. Psalm 62:8 says, “Pour out your heart before Him; God is a refuge for us.” 

Begin here: 

Set a timer for five minutes. Ask yourself, “What’s one thing I want to say to God today?” Over time, it will become a natural rhythm of intimacy. 

Pray with Others for Support

Spiritual dryness often thrives in isolation, but God designed us for community. Two are better than one, as it says in Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 NKJV, “Because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, one will lift up his companion. But woe to him who is alone when he falls, for he has no one to help him up.”

You don’t have to feel spiritual to show up, just be present. Others can carry yours prayers when you can’t find the strength. 

Ideas to try: 

• Schedule a short weekly prayer call with a friend. 

• Share prayer requests by text. 

• Join a small group or online prayer meeting. 

• Ask someone if they can pray for you. 

When we pray together, God’s presence becomes tangible. (Matthew 18:20). 

Let Worship Be Your Prayer

When words are gone, worship can still speak. Songs of praise are prayers set to music, and music has a way of bypassing our weariness to stir the soul. 

Create a playlist of worship songs that lift your spirit, whether it’s a song like “Way Maker,” “It is Well,” or a classic hymn like “Be Thou My Vision.”  Sing along or let the lyrics wash over you. 

Other ideas: 

• Read hymn lyrics slowly as a devotional 

• Watch a worship session on YouTube

• Reflect on a piece of sacred art

• Recite a creed or liturgical prayer

Psalm 100:2 NKJV says, “Serve the LORD with gladness; come before His presence with singing.” Let worship gently lead you back into communion with God. 

Trust God in the Dryness

The most important thing to remember is this: God doesn’t judge your prayers by how passionate they sound. He sees your heart and delights in your desire to draw near, even when it’s faltering. 

Jesus Himself prayed through pain in Gethsemane: “Father, if it is Your will, take this cup away from Me; nevertheless, not My will, but Yours, be done (Luke 22:42 NKJV). Your tired, broken, awkward prayers are precious to Him. 

If you’re in a dry season, don’t give up. Start with one small step: a breath prayer, a Scripture verse, a song, or a journal entry. Trust that God is working in your heart, even when you can’t feel it. 

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Challenge for You

Choose one of these steps to try this week: breath prayer, Scripture, journaling, community or worship. 

Let me know how it goes! Leave a comment or send me an email: What helped you reconnect with God? What felt hard? 

Let’s encourage one another to keep praying—even in the dry seasons. 

God bless,

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Rooted in Christ

“I am the vine. You are the branches. He who remains in me and I in him bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing” – John 15:5 (NKJV)

In this week’s Substack devotional series, Flourishing with Faith, we immerse ourselves in the beautiful imagery of John 15:5, where Jesus presents Himself as the vine and us as the branches. This scripture is a heartfelt invitation to explore what it means to be deeply rooted in Christ, drawing life, strength, and purpose from our connection to Him. Being “rooted in the vine” is not merely a poetic metaphor—it’s a transformative call to abide in Jesus daily, cultivating a relationship that sustains and empowers us to flourish spiritually.

The Vine and the Branches: A Divine Connection

This image of the vine and branches wasn’t chosen at random. Jesus is drawing from a familiar biblical metaphor. It’s one His listeners would have recognized from the Old Testament, where Israel is often described as God’s vineyard. In passages like Isaiah 5 and Jeremiah 2, God is pictured as a gardener who lovingly plants and tends His people, expecting them to bear fruit. But instead of faithfulness and justice, they produce wild, sour grapes, which symbolize disobedience and spiritual barrenness. 

Against this backdrop, Jesus says, “I am the true vine” (John 15:1). He’s saying that He is everything Israel was meant to be: faithful, fruitful, and fully connected to the Father. And it is Jesus who invites us to be branches on His vine, to receive our spiritual life from Him.

The metaphor is clear: Jesus is our source of life. Just as a branch cannot survive on its own, we cannot thrive spiritually apart from Him. The fruit we bear: love, patience, goodness, lasting purpose, comes not from striving but from staying connected to Christ. It’s like the grape branch must remain connected to the vine to be fruitful. 

This connection is not a one-time event but a continuous act of abiding. The Greek word for “abide” is “meno” (Strong’s #G3306). Abide means to remain, to dwell, endure, be present, stand, tarry (for), and stay closely connected. It’s an intentional choice to align our hearts, minds, and actions with Jesus, allowing His life to flow through us. 

When we abide, we tap into the divine source of love, wisdom, and strength, enabling us to live out God’s purpose for our lives. It’s only through Jesus that we can have a relationship with the living God. Apart from Him, as John 15:5 reminds us, we can do nothing of eternal value.

What Abiding Looks Like in Everyday Life

In our fast-paced, distraction-filled world, abiding in Christ can feel challenging. Our schedules are packed with work, family, and endless notifications, leaving little room for spiritual reflection. Yet, abiding is not about adding more tasks to our to-do lists; it’s about weaving our connection with Jesus into the fabric of our daily lives.

Prayer as a Lifeline

Prayer is one of the most powerful ways to abide in Christ. It’s not just about presenting requests but about communing with God, sharing our joys, fears, and dreams. Prayer is a two-way conversation where we talk with God and listen to what He has to say. A simple morning prayer, a whispered plea during a stressful moment, or a quiet evening of gratitude can anchor us to the vine. 

If you’re new to prayer, try setting aside five minutes each day to sit in God’s presence, listening as much as you speak. As you become more comfortable with prayer, you’ll spend more time with our Lord. You’ll find five minutes won’t be enough! 

But don’t feel bad if you’re just starting out. Praying can feel awkward in the beginning. The key is to come before the Lord with intention. The intention is to connect with Him, talk with Him, and listen to what He has to say. Starting with five minutes is a great way to begin! 

Immersing in Scripture

God’s Word is another vital channel for abiding. The Bible is not just a book of instructions but a living revelation of God’s heart to us. Reading and meditating on scriptures like John 15:5 allows us to internalize Jesus’ teachings and align our lives with His truth. Consider keeping a journal to record insights from your Bible reading, noting how God speaks to you through His Word.

Surrender and Obedience

Abiding also involves surrendering our will to God’s will. This can be as simple as choosing forgiveness over resentment or as significant as following a calling that feels daunting. Obedience, even in small matters, deepens our connection to the vine, as it reflects our trust in Jesus’ guidance. 

Reflect on an area where God might be asking you to step out in faith—what would it look like to say “yes” to Him?

The Fruit of Abiding

When we remain rooted in the vine, we bear fruit that glorifies God and blesses others. This fruit is not something we produce through our own efforts but a natural outcome of our connection to Christ. Galatians 5:22-23 describes the fruit of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control—as evidence of a life transformed by God’s presence.

Imagine a branch heavy with grapes, vibrant and full of life. That’s the picture of a believer who abides in Christ. Our love becomes more selfless, our joy more resilient, and our peace more unshakable. This fruit doesn’t just benefit us; it impacts those around us, drawing others to the beauty of a life rooted in Jesus.

Challenges to Abiding

Despite the beauty of abiding, we often face obstacles that threaten to disconnect us from the vine. Busyness can crowd out time for prayer, while doubt or fear can make us question God’s presence. Sin, too, can create distance, as unconfessed struggles weigh on our hearts.

To overcome these challenges, we must be intentional. Regular self-examination can help us identify areas where we’ve drifted. Ask yourself: Are there distractions pulling me away from Jesus? Am I harboring bitterness or pride? Confession and repentance are powerful tools to restore our connection, allowing God’s grace to flow freely once more.

A Practical Plan for Abiding

This week, let’s commit to strengthening our connection to the vine. Here are some practical steps to help you abide in Christ:

1. Set a Daily Anchor Point: Choose a specific time each day for prayer and scripture reading, even if it’s just 10 minutes. Consistency builds intimacy.

2. Practice Presence: Throughout the day, pause to acknowledge God’s presence. A quick prayer or a moment of gratitude can recenter you.

3. Join a Community: Connect with other believers who can encourage you to stay rooted in Christ. Share your journey in a small group or with a trusted friend.

4. Reflect and Journal: At the end of each day, write down one way you experienced God’s presence or saw His fruit in your life.

As you implement these practices, trust that God is at work, shaping you into a branch that bears abundant fruit. Your faith will deepen, your heart will align with His, and your life will become a testament to His sustaining power.

A Call to Flourish

John 15:5 is both a promise and a challenge. It assures us that when we abide in Christ, we will bear much fruit, but it also reminds us that apart from Him, our efforts are futile. We can do nothing for our Lord on our own. As we navigate this week, let’s embrace the call to be rooted in the vine, drawing life from Jesus in every moment.

Take time to pray, asking God to reveal any areas where you need to reconnect with Him. Meditate on John 15:5, letting its truth sink deep into your soul. And as you abide, watch for the fruit God produces—fruit that will not only transform you but also shine as a light to those around you.

Reflection Question: What is one practical step you can take this week to abide more fully in Christ? Share your thoughts in the comments or on social media with #FlourishingWithFaith. Let’s flourish together, rooted in the true source of life.

Join us next week as we continue exploring Flourishing with Faith!

God Bless,

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