Prayer for New Believers

Prayer is one of the most beautiful and powerful parts of the Christian life. Yet, for many new believers, prayer can feel confusing, intimidating, or even distant. You might wonder: How do I pray? Does God really hear me? What if I don’t know what to say?

If you’ve ever felt that way, you’re not alone. Prayer is not just a religious obligation—it’s an ongoing conversation with the loving God who made you. It’s a way to connect, grow, and experience His presence every day.

In this post, we’ll explore what prayer really is, why it matters, and practical ways to grow your prayer life. Whether you’re just starting out or want to deepen your connection with God, this guide will help you take confident steps forward.

What Is Prayer, Really?

At its heart, prayer is simply talking with God. Imagine speaking with your closest friend or trusted parent. You share your joys, struggles, hopes, and fears. Prayer is the same, except God already loves you perfectly and always listens.

Prayer can take many forms:

• Speaking your thoughts aloud or silently in your heart
• Listening quietly for God’s guidance
• Praising and thanking God for who He is
• Asking for help or wisdom, expressing our needs
• Confessing mistakes and seeking forgiveness
• Intercession for the needs of others
• Prayers can also be written in a journal or typed on a computer or tablet

The main thing to understand is that prayer is a form of communication with God. We need prayer not only to communicate with the Lord, but also to deepen our relationship with Him. Prayer is a privilege, not a duty we perform to gain God’s favor. 

How is Prayer a Privilege? 

Prayer’s a privilege because it allows us to connect with God. It’s His gift to us and a benefit that allows us to have a personal relationship with the living God. 

Prayer provides for us in these ways: 

• Grants direct access to God: through prayer, we have direct access to our Lord.
• Relationship with God: it’s also through prayer that we develop a living, lasting relationship with our heavenly Father. 
• God’s presence & response: the Lord listens to our prayers and responds. He offers comfort, guidance, and support even in the smallest details of our lives. 
• Spiritual transformation: prayer can also lead us to spiritual growth and transformation. It’s a process that develops and deepens over time spent with God. 

Does God Want to Hear from Us? 

“The Lord is near to all who call upon Him, to all who call upon Him in truth.” 

Psalm 145:18 NKJV

We were made to live with and experience God directly in the Garden. During that time, Adam and Eve enjoyed His direct presence until their rebellion. Rebellion always carries consequences. The result was that they became separated from the Lord’s direct presence. 

After the Fall, people began to pray. Prayer is an ancient practice. The first mention of something like prayer in the Bible is found in Genesis 4:26 NKJV: “And as for Seth, to him also a son was born; and he named him Enosh. Then men began to call on the name of the Lord.” This verse doesn’t say what made humans call out to God. However, it’s clear that they recognized God's essential role in their lives. And the Lord wanted to hear from His people. 

From that time to now, God wants to hear from us. He’s always listening and ready to spend time with us when we want to spend time with Him in prayer. 

God invites you to bring everything honestly to Him. You don’t need fancy words or a perfect formula. He wants a real relationship with the human He created--you.

The Invitation to Pray

One of the most encouraging verses about prayer is found in Matthew 7:7-8 NKJV:

"Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks, finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened. For everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks, finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened."

Here, Jesus reminds us that God welcomes our prayers. No matter who you are or what you’ve done, God invites you to come and talk with Him. The act of asking means you believe God cares and can help. The promise of seeking and knocking means that God is actively present and responds.

This invitation is amazing because it shows God’s desire for relationship. You don’t have to wonder if He’s too busy or distant. He’s ready to listen and respond with love.

Learning to Listen to God

Prayer isn’t only about talking — it’s also about listening. Psalm 46:10 says, “Be still, and know that I am God.” This means creating quiet moments to pause, open your heart to God’s presence, and listen to what He’s saying.

Listening can feel hard at first, especially when life is noisy. But the more you practice, the more you’ll recognize God’s gentle voice through Scripture, impressions, or peace in your spirit.

Begin by setting aside just 2-3 minutes of silence each day, inviting God to speak. You might be surprised at how this simple habit grows your awareness of Him.

Praying with Faith and Expectation

Mark 11:24 NKJV encourages us: “Therefore I say to you, whatever things you ask when you pray, believe that you receive them, and you will have them.”

Praying with faith means trusting that God hears you and will answer in the best way, even if it’s different from what you expect. Sometimes answers come immediately, other times through time, or in unexpected ways.

Faith in prayer doesn’t mean demanding things from God but trusting His goodness and timing.

Making Prayer a Lifestyle

Prayer is not just a once-a-day ritual or something we do only in church. 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 NKJV tells us: “Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.”

This means we can pray at any time—while driving, walking, working, or resting. Prayer becomes an ongoing conversation that is woven into our daily life.

Try choosing moments in your routine where you can pause and pray — maybe while washing dishes, on your commute, or before meals. These little habits make a big difference. Each moment spent in prayer grows your faith and deepens your relationship with our Lord.

The Role of the Holy Spirit in Prayer

What about the time you don’t know what to pray? One comforting truth is that you don’t have to have all the right words or know exactly what to pray. Romans 8:26 NKJV says:

“Likewise the Spirit also helps in our weaknesses. For we do not know what we should pray for as we ought, but the Spirit Himself makes intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered.”

The Holy Spirit is your helper and guide in prayer. When you feel lost for words or unsure what to pray, invite the Spirit to pray through you. This takes the pressure off and reminds you that God is involved in your conversation with Him.

Using Scripture in Prayer

Praying Scripture to God is a powerful way to connect with His promises and align your heart with His will. Psalm 119:105 NKJV says, “Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” 

You might find a verse that speaks to your situation, then use it as a prayer. For example, if you’re feeling anxious, pray Philippians 4:6-7, asking God for peace. The Psalms are especially helpful for new believers. There, you can find all kinds of emotions and thoughts expressed in deep ways that satisfy your soul. However, many other verses are also helpful when you need guidance in prayer. 

Praying the Scriptures helps ground your prayers in God’s truth and strengthens your faith.

Prayers of Thanksgiving and Praise

Finally, cultivating a habit of thanksgiving changes everything. Psalm 100:4 invites us: “Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name.”

Gratitude shifts our focus from problems to God’s goodness. Even on hard days, there’s always something to thank Him for—a breath, a friend, a moment of peace.

Try ending each prayer time with thanks and praise. You’ll notice your heart growing lighter and your trust deepening.

Practical Tips to Grow Your Prayer Life

Here are some simple ways to start or deepen your prayer journey:

• Set aside quiet time: Even 5 minutes a day, without distractions, can help build a solid habit.
• Keep a prayer journal: Write down your prayers, answers, and reflections. This encourages consistency and helps you remember God’s faithfulness.
• Pray Scripture: Choose a Bible verse daily and turn it into your prayer.
• Practice listening: Include moments of silence in your prayer time.
• Pray anytime: Talk to God throughout the day, sharing your thoughts and thanking Him.
• Join a prayer group: If you’re comfortable, praying with others can build encouragement and accountability.

Remember: Prayer Is a Journey

Like any relationship, prayer grows over time. You may have days when it feels easy and other times when it feels distant. That’s okay. God is patient and faithful, always inviting you closer.

If you’re struggling, don’t give up. Keep coming back, sharing honestly, and trusting the Spirit to guide you.

Closing Encouragement

As you practice prayer, remember Jesus’ promise: when you ask, seek, and knock, the door will be opened. You are never alone. God delights in your voice and longs to draw near.

Prayer is your lifeline, your refuge, and your connection to the One who loves you unconditionally. Embrace this beautiful gift today and watch how it transforms your faith and life.

Growing in Truth, Strength, & Grace: Week 4: Growing in Prayer

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• 7-day devotional guide on building a personal prayer life

• Daily application prompts and guided reflection questions

This versatile bundle is easy to use! Use it digitally in PDF annotation apps like GoodNotes, Xodo, or print the files out for your binder or notebook. 

Whether you're new to prayer or seeking to deepen your relationship, this bundle provides the structure and encouragement to make prayer a natural, life-giving part of your daily walk with God. Or you can purchase the ebook separately! Head over to my Gumroad shop for your copy! 

God bless,

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How to Pray When You Don’t Feel Like It

Bible Verse: Trust in Him at all times, you people; pour out your heart before Him; God is a refuge for us. Selah

Psalm 62:8 NKJV

Prayer is the lifeline of a Christian’s faith. It’s a sacred conversation with God that strengthens, comforts, and guides us. Yet, there are seasons when prayer feels like an uphill battle. Perhaps you’re spiritually dry, overwhelmed by life’s demands, or simply too tired to form the words. You might even feel guilty about wondering if you’re failing in your faith. 

If that resonates with you, take heart: you’re not alone. Even King David cried out in desperation, “My soul thirsts for You…in a dry and weary land” (Psalm 63:1 NKJV). The good news? God meets us in our weaknesses. And there are simple, biblical ways to rekindle your prayer, even when it feels like a chore. 

Here are five practical, grace-filled steps to help you pray when you don’t feel like it. These ideas are designed to meet you where you are and gently guide you back to God’s presence. 

Start Small with the Jesus Prayer

When prayer feels overwhelming, long sessions can feel impossible. In these moments, simplicity is your friend. The Jesus Prayer is a short phrase you can say once or more. It’s a gentle way to reconnect with God. 

Rooted in the early church's tradition of the Jesus Prayer, “Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me” has long been used by monastic communities and laypeople alike. 

How to begin: 

Find a quiet moment and say the prayer. Repeat it a few times if you’d like. This small act of stillness can ground your spirit even if your heart feels heavy. 

You can use this prayer anywhere at any time. Try this: Say the Jesus Prayer for one week when you feel overwhelmed. Let it anchor you in God’s presence. 

Pray Scripture When Words Won’t Come

Sometimes, the hardest part of prayer is knowing what to say or feeling like your words fall flat. In those moments, God’s Word can speak for you. 

The Bible is full of heartfelt prayers you can borrow. The Psalms are especially rich, raw, honest, and deeply human. Psalm 23 begins, “The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want.” Or use the Lord’s Prayer (Matthew 6:9-13) as a framework. 

Try This Approach

Choose a verse that reflects your current need. If you’re anxious, start with Philippians 4-6-7. Read it slowly, out loud if you can. You can also personalize the prayer like this: “Lord, I’m anxious about my job. Help me to trust You and receive your peace.

Write it on a note card, journal it, or set it as your phone’s lock screen. Praying Scripture not only gives you words—it realigns your heart with truth. 

Use a Prayer Journal or Prompt

Distraction is one of the biggest barriers to prayer. A structured prompt or journal can help focus your mind and heart. 

A simple method is the ACTS format: 

• Adoration: Praise: God, You are faithful, even when I’m not 

• Confession: Honesty: I’ve let busyness keep me from You.

• Thanksgiving: Gratitude: Thank You for Your patience and grace. 

• Supplication: Requests: Help me make space for You tomorrow.

If you prefer a freer form, try writing a letter to God. Be honest. Tell Him why prayers feels hard—whether it’s doubt, grief, exhaustion, or something else. Psalm 62:8 says, “Pour out your heart before Him; God is a refuge for us.” 

Begin here: 

Set a timer for five minutes. Ask yourself, “What’s one thing I want to say to God today?” Over time, it will become a natural rhythm of intimacy. 

Pray with Others for Support

Spiritual dryness often thrives in isolation, but God designed us for community. Two are better than one, as it says in Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 NKJV, “Because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, one will lift up his companion. But woe to him who is alone when he falls, for he has no one to help him up.”

You don’t have to feel spiritual to show up, just be present. Others can carry yours prayers when you can’t find the strength. 

Ideas to try: 

• Schedule a short weekly prayer call with a friend. 

• Share prayer requests by text. 

• Join a small group or online prayer meeting. 

• Ask someone if they can pray for you. 

When we pray together, God’s presence becomes tangible. (Matthew 18:20). 

Let Worship Be Your Prayer

When words are gone, worship can still speak. Songs of praise are prayers set to music, and music has a way of bypassing our weariness to stir the soul. 

Create a playlist of worship songs that lift your spirit, whether it’s a song like “Way Maker,” “It is Well,” or a classic hymn like “Be Thou My Vision.”  Sing along or let the lyrics wash over you. 

Other ideas: 

• Read hymn lyrics slowly as a devotional 

• Watch a worship session on YouTube

• Reflect on a piece of sacred art

• Recite a creed or liturgical prayer

Psalm 100:2 NKJV says, “Serve the LORD with gladness; come before His presence with singing.” Let worship gently lead you back into communion with God. 

Trust God in the Dryness

The most important thing to remember is this: God doesn’t judge your prayers by how passionate they sound. He sees your heart and delights in your desire to draw near, even when it’s faltering. 

Jesus Himself prayed through pain in Gethsemane: “Father, if it is Your will, take this cup away from Me; nevertheless, not My will, but Yours, be done (Luke 22:42 NKJV). Your tired, broken, awkward prayers are precious to Him. 

If you’re in a dry season, don’t give up. Start with one small step: a breath prayer, a Scripture verse, a song, or a journal entry. Trust that God is working in your heart, even when you can’t feel it. 

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Challenge for You

Choose one of these steps to try this week: breath prayer, Scripture, journaling, community or worship. 

Let me know how it goes! Leave a comment or send me an email: What helped you reconnect with God? What felt hard? 

Let’s encourage one another to keep praying—even in the dry seasons. 

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Rooted in Christ

“I am the vine. You are the branches. He who remains in me and I in him bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing” – John 15:5 (NKJV)

In this week’s Substack devotional series, Flourishing with Faith, we immerse ourselves in the beautiful imagery of John 15:5, where Jesus presents Himself as the vine and us as the branches. This scripture is a heartfelt invitation to explore what it means to be deeply rooted in Christ, drawing life, strength, and purpose from our connection to Him. Being “rooted in the vine” is not merely a poetic metaphor—it’s a transformative call to abide in Jesus daily, cultivating a relationship that sustains and empowers us to flourish spiritually.

The Vine and the Branches: A Divine Connection

This image of the vine and branches wasn’t chosen at random. Jesus is drawing from a familiar biblical metaphor. It’s one His listeners would have recognized from the Old Testament, where Israel is often described as God’s vineyard. In passages like Isaiah 5 and Jeremiah 2, God is pictured as a gardener who lovingly plants and tends His people, expecting them to bear fruit. But instead of faithfulness and justice, they produce wild, sour grapes, which symbolize disobedience and spiritual barrenness. 

Against this backdrop, Jesus says, “I am the true vine” (John 15:1). He’s saying that He is everything Israel was meant to be: faithful, fruitful, and fully connected to the Father. And it is Jesus who invites us to be branches on His vine, to receive our spiritual life from Him.

The metaphor is clear: Jesus is our source of life. Just as a branch cannot survive on its own, we cannot thrive spiritually apart from Him. The fruit we bear: love, patience, goodness, lasting purpose, comes not from striving but from staying connected to Christ. It’s like the grape branch must remain connected to the vine to be fruitful. 

This connection is not a one-time event but a continuous act of abiding. The Greek word for “abide” is “meno” (Strong’s #G3306). Abide means to remain, to dwell, endure, be present, stand, tarry (for), and stay closely connected. It’s an intentional choice to align our hearts, minds, and actions with Jesus, allowing His life to flow through us. 

When we abide, we tap into the divine source of love, wisdom, and strength, enabling us to live out God’s purpose for our lives. It’s only through Jesus that we can have a relationship with the living God. Apart from Him, as John 15:5 reminds us, we can do nothing of eternal value.

What Abiding Looks Like in Everyday Life

In our fast-paced, distraction-filled world, abiding in Christ can feel challenging. Our schedules are packed with work, family, and endless notifications, leaving little room for spiritual reflection. Yet, abiding is not about adding more tasks to our to-do lists; it’s about weaving our connection with Jesus into the fabric of our daily lives.

Prayer as a Lifeline

Prayer is one of the most powerful ways to abide in Christ. It’s not just about presenting requests but about communing with God, sharing our joys, fears, and dreams. Prayer is a two-way conversation where we talk with God and listen to what He has to say. A simple morning prayer, a whispered plea during a stressful moment, or a quiet evening of gratitude can anchor us to the vine. 

If you’re new to prayer, try setting aside five minutes each day to sit in God’s presence, listening as much as you speak. As you become more comfortable with prayer, you’ll spend more time with our Lord. You’ll find five minutes won’t be enough! 

But don’t feel bad if you’re just starting out. Praying can feel awkward in the beginning. The key is to come before the Lord with intention. The intention is to connect with Him, talk with Him, and listen to what He has to say. Starting with five minutes is a great way to begin! 

Immersing in Scripture

God’s Word is another vital channel for abiding. The Bible is not just a book of instructions but a living revelation of God’s heart to us. Reading and meditating on scriptures like John 15:5 allows us to internalize Jesus’ teachings and align our lives with His truth. Consider keeping a journal to record insights from your Bible reading, noting how God speaks to you through His Word.

Surrender and Obedience

Abiding also involves surrendering our will to God’s will. This can be as simple as choosing forgiveness over resentment or as significant as following a calling that feels daunting. Obedience, even in small matters, deepens our connection to the vine, as it reflects our trust in Jesus’ guidance. 

Reflect on an area where God might be asking you to step out in faith—what would it look like to say “yes” to Him?

The Fruit of Abiding

When we remain rooted in the vine, we bear fruit that glorifies God and blesses others. This fruit is not something we produce through our own efforts but a natural outcome of our connection to Christ. Galatians 5:22-23 describes the fruit of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control—as evidence of a life transformed by God’s presence.

Imagine a branch heavy with grapes, vibrant and full of life. That’s the picture of a believer who abides in Christ. Our love becomes more selfless, our joy more resilient, and our peace more unshakable. This fruit doesn’t just benefit us; it impacts those around us, drawing others to the beauty of a life rooted in Jesus.

Challenges to Abiding

Despite the beauty of abiding, we often face obstacles that threaten to disconnect us from the vine. Busyness can crowd out time for prayer, while doubt or fear can make us question God’s presence. Sin, too, can create distance, as unconfessed struggles weigh on our hearts.

To overcome these challenges, we must be intentional. Regular self-examination can help us identify areas where we’ve drifted. Ask yourself: Are there distractions pulling me away from Jesus? Am I harboring bitterness or pride? Confession and repentance are powerful tools to restore our connection, allowing God’s grace to flow freely once more.

A Practical Plan for Abiding

This week, let’s commit to strengthening our connection to the vine. Here are some practical steps to help you abide in Christ:

1. Set a Daily Anchor Point: Choose a specific time each day for prayer and scripture reading, even if it’s just 10 minutes. Consistency builds intimacy.

2. Practice Presence: Throughout the day, pause to acknowledge God’s presence. A quick prayer or a moment of gratitude can recenter you.

3. Join a Community: Connect with other believers who can encourage you to stay rooted in Christ. Share your journey in a small group or with a trusted friend.

4. Reflect and Journal: At the end of each day, write down one way you experienced God’s presence or saw His fruit in your life.

As you implement these practices, trust that God is at work, shaping you into a branch that bears abundant fruit. Your faith will deepen, your heart will align with His, and your life will become a testament to His sustaining power.

A Call to Flourish

John 15:5 is both a promise and a challenge. It assures us that when we abide in Christ, we will bear much fruit, but it also reminds us that apart from Him, our efforts are futile. We can do nothing for our Lord on our own. As we navigate this week, let’s embrace the call to be rooted in the vine, drawing life from Jesus in every moment.

Take time to pray, asking God to reveal any areas where you need to reconnect with Him. Meditate on John 15:5, letting its truth sink deep into your soul. And as you abide, watch for the fruit God produces—fruit that will not only transform you but also shine as a light to those around you.

Reflection Question: What is one practical step you can take this week to abide more fully in Christ? Share your thoughts in the comments or on social media with #FlourishingWithFaith. Let’s flourish together, rooted in the true source of life.

Join us next week as we continue exploring Flourishing with Faith!

God Bless,

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Finding Peace by Rediscovering Prayer

Life can feel like a whirlwind at times—the kids are running around, work deadlines loom, and there’s the never-ending to-do list that mocks our best intentions. It’s in those moments we crave peace, a quiet place to breathe and reconnect with God. That’s where prayer comes in. 

Philippians 4:6 is a lifeline, reminding us to pause, pray, and trust. It’s like a warm hug from God and a call to let go of our worries. We should bring everything—large and small—to our Lord. Let’s take a look at how this scripture can guide us in rediscovering prayer, finding peace, and deepening our walk with God. 

The Weight of Anxiety and the Call to Let Go

Anxiety is sneaky and has a way of cropping up in our lives like an unwanted guest. Whether it’s fretting over the future of our kids, stressing about finances, or dealing with a challenging boss, these anxious thoughts can pile up fast. Paul’s words in Philippians 4:6 NKJV tell us, “Be anxious for nothing...” That’s easier said than done for many of us. 

In his words, Paul gives us a practical alternative to worry and anxiety: prayer. Rather than letting anxiety take over our lives, we’re invited to hand it all over to God. We shouldn’t ignore our problems; prayer is all about naming them and giving them to the One who can handle them far better than we can. 

Consider this—God already knows what’s weighing us down. Psalm 139:2 NKJV says, “You know my sitting down and my rising up; You understand my thought afar off.” In other words, our Lord sees every worry, each fear, and He’s ready to carry them for us. Rediscovering prayer means choosing to trust that God is big enough to handle whatever’s on our plate. 

Prayer and Petition: Bringing It All to God

The next part of Philippians 4:6 NKJV says, “...but by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God.” Notice how specific these words are. Paul doesn’t say, “Pray about the big stuff only,” or “Only bother God with spiritual matters.” No, he says, in every situation we are to bring our worries, fears, and everything to God. That means the messy, the mundane, the overwhelming, and even the joyful moments all belong in our prayers. 

Some people believe their prayers need to be polished and profound. But what we learn is that God just wants our real, unfiltered selves. That means getting honest with God about everything. So, we can pray about the little things—such as surviving a chaotic morning with the kids—and the big things, like seeking direction for our careers. When we’re honest with God, the result is that we feel freer. We also know that He is listening and helps us through. 

Next time you feel overwhelmed, try this: take a moment to pray exactly what’s on your heart. Be honest—no filter is needed, nor are flowery words. Maybe it’s, “God, I’m so tired, and I don’t know how I’m going to get through this day.” Or maybe it’s “Lord, I’m scared about the doctor’s appointment.” Whatever it is, bring it to the Lord. 1 Peter 5:7 NKJV echoes this: “Casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you.” Prayer is the bridge that connects our hearts, minds, and souls to God and His love for us. 

The Power of Thanksgiving in Prayer

In today’s verse, Paul talks about thanksgiving. Thankfulness? In the middle of anxiety? That feels like a tall order. But the more we lean into this, the more we see how gratitude transforms prayer. 

Thanksgiving isn’t about pretending everything’s fine. It’s about recognizing God’s faithfulness even in the storm. When we start our prayers by thanking God for Who He is—my Provider, my Comforter, my Rock—it shifts our perspective. Suddenly, we’re not just focused on our problems; we’re reminded of the One who’s bigger than them. 

Try keeping a notebook or even a note on your phone where you jot down things you’re thankful for each day. It could be as simple as a warm meal, a kind word from a friend, or the fact that God woke you up this morning. Bringing thanksgiving into your prayers is like adding a splash of light to a dark room—it’s completely changes the atmosphere. 

Presenting Our Requests

The final part of Philippians 4:6 NKJV says, “let your requests be made known to God.” This is where prayer becomes an act of surrender. It’s not about demanding our way or giving God a to-do list; it’s about laying our desires at His feet and trusting His wisdom. 

This part can be hard. We like to be in control. We know the outcome before we pray. But rediscovering prayer means learning to let go of our need to have it all figured out. God’s answers don’t always look like what we expect, but they’re always what we need. Isaiah 55:8-9 NKJV says, “’For My thoughts are not your thoughts, nor are your ways My ways,’ says the Lord. ‘For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are My ways higher than your ways, and My thoughts higher than your thoughts.’” Our Father’s plans are higher, deeper, and better than anything we can come up with on our own. 

So, when you pray, go ahead and ask boldly. Tell God what you need, what you hope for. But then, leave room for Him to work in His way. Rediscovering prayer means rediscovering trust. 

The Promise of Peace

Philippians 4:6 NKJV beautifully sets the stage for verse 7, which contains an amazing promise: “And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.” This is the why behind prayer. When we bring our anxieties, petitions, and thanks to God, He gives us peace that doesn’t make sense in human terms. 

When the world feels like it’s falling apart, prayer can become our refuge, a place where we can rest in Him. Jesus told us, in John 16:33 NKJV, “These things I have spoken to you, that in Me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation; but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world.” Prayer connects us to the One who’s already won the battle! 

If you’re rediscovering prayer, don’t be discouraged if it feels clunky at first. Some days, prayer may flow freely; other days, it may feel like a jumbled mess. But God hears all prayers. Start small—maybe a five-minute prayer in the morning or a quick thank you before bed. Over time, you’ll find that prayer becomes less of a task and more of a conversation with our loving Father. 

A Challenge to Prayer

So, here’s a challenge for all of us: let’s make prayer a priority again. Let’s carve out time to talk with God, not because we have to, but because we can. Philippians 4:6 is our guide—don’t be anxious, pray about everything, give thanks, and trust God with the outcome. It’s not a formula; it’s an invitation to a deeper relationship with our Lord. 

Maybe you’re feeling distant from God right now. Maybe prayer feels like a chore or a mystery. That’s OK. Start where you are. Whisper a simple “God, I need You,” and let Him meet you there. Rediscovering prayer is about rediscovering His heart—and I promise, He’s waiting for you with open arms. 

Let’s pray together: Father, thank You for inviting us into prayer. Help us bring every worry, every joy, and every need to You. Teach us to trust You, to give thanks, and to rest in Your peace. Draw us closer to You as we rediscover the gift of prayer. In Jesus’ name, Amen. 

Thank you for joining me on this journey. I’d love to hear how you’ve rediscovered prayer in your life—drop a comment or send me a message.

God bless,

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Trusting God in the Year Ahead

During this time of the year, we may find ourselves filled with a mix of excitement and uncertainty. What will the new year bring? Will it be a year of growth, joy, and blessings? What challenges will we face? It’s normal to wonder what lies ahead. But for some, the beginning of a new year can bring on anxiety and stress. 

This new year will be a mix that includes challenges. Even though the future is unknown, one thing is sure: God is already there, guiding us every step of the way.

Proverbs 3:5-6 NKJV offers a beautiful reminder of the importance of trusting God, no matter what lies ahead: "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths." 

This verse is a powerful reminder that encourages us to place our complete trust in the Lord. It calls us to surrender everything, including our doubts, fears, anxieties, and uncertainties, into His hands. The scripture also reminds us that God is sovereign no matter how unpredictable the future may appear. He will guide us on the path He has set before us. Our Lord will be faithful as He always has been. 

Trusting God is Vital

The truth is, we can't predict what the year ahead holds. There will be moments of joy, success, struggle, and hardship. If we only trust in our own understanding and abilities, we may become anxious or overwhelmed when things don't go as planned. 

However, trusting God's wisdom, timing, and plans brings us peace amidst the unknown. We can rest in the assurance that He is always with us and will direct our paths. 

Picture a twisty road in the mountains that you've never driven before. You never know what's coming around the next twist or turn in the road. However, signs are placed at intervals warning of steep grades, winding roads ahead, sharp curves, and more. 

This picture is similar to how God directs us through. If we pay attention and listen to Him, we may learn what's ahead, but if not, we know He's already ahead of us, preparing the way. We only need to trust Jesus and lean on Him to get through. 

Trusting God in the new year is crucial because it helps us navigate inevitable uncertainties and challenges. Knowing our Lord is in control and that He has a purpose for everything that happens can bring us peace. Here are some essential reasons to trust God in each new year: 

God knows what we don’t: the future is a complete unknown. We have no way to predict what will happen or whether the months ahead will bring blessings or struggles. However, God sees the big picture. He knows all the details of our lives and has already gone before us. By trying Him, we can rest in the assurance that He is leading us toward His best for us, even when we can't see the path clearly. 

God’s plans are better than our own: along with a new year, we often have our own plans and goals for the coming months. It's great to have aspirations; however, we must remember that God's plans are greater than anything we could develop. Proverbs 3:5-6 encourages us to trust in His wisdom rather than relying on our own understanding. When we surrender our plans to Him, we open ourselves to His perfect will, which often exceeds our expectations. 

Trusting God brings peace in uncertainty: uncertainty is a part of life, especially as we face the start of a new year. The world around us may feel unstable, and we may worry about what lies ahead. However, when we trust God, He gives us a deep sense of peace. We know that He is sovereign over all things. Philippians 4:6-7 tells us that when we present our anxieties to God in prayer, He will guard our hearts and minds with peace that surpasses understanding. Trust God means we don’t have to carry the weight of our worries alone. 

God’s faithfulness provides assurance: when we look back at the last year, we can see many instances of God’s faithfulness in our lives. He has been with us through the good and the bad. Trusting God in the new year is rooted in remembering His past faithfulness. As Hebrews 13:8 NKJV reminds us, “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, and today, and forever.” His character remains unchanging, and we can trust that He will continue to be faithful as we move forward. 

Trusting God helps us live with purpose: trusting God gives our lives purpose. He has a plan for us that goes beyond our desires and ambitions. We align ourselves with His great purpose as we trust Him with our goals, relationships, and responsibilities. This gives us direction and a sense of peace, knowing that we are walking in His will, even when the road ahead is not always clear. 

Strengthens our faith and dependence on God: trusting God with our new year is an opportunity for growing in our faith. The challenges we face, though sometimes tricky (to put it mildly), offer us a chance to lean on God more deeply and experience His strength. We build a deeper relationship with Him each time we trust Him with our fears, doubts, and decisions. Trusting God isn't only about feeling peace in the moment. It's about developing a lasting faith that sustains us through each season of life. 

Trusting God transforms our perspective: trusting in God's sovereignty shifts our focus from our own limitations to His infinite power and wisdom. Instead of being consumed by worries or distractions, we begin to see the world through faith. Trusting God helps us embrace each day with gratitude. We know He is in control and has a purpose for every moment. 

Surrendering Our Anxieties and Uncertainties

As we look ahead, it’s natural to feel a sense of apprehension about what might come. Will things go as planned? Will we experience setbacks? It’s easy to hold onto those uncertainties and allow them to weigh us down. But God calls us to surrender our worries to Him. When we do, we find rest for our souls. He has promised to give us peace and direction, but we must actively release our grip on control and place our trust in Him.

Here are some actionable tips for trusting God more fully in the year ahead:

1. Start Each Day with Prayer

Begin your morning by surrendering the day to God. Take a few moments to pray, asking Him for wisdom, peace, and guidance. Invite Him into every decision, whether big or small. Prayer aligns our hearts with His will and reminds us that we are not alone on the journey ahead. Consider making this a daily habit to help center your heart on God’s promises.

2. Commit to a Daily Devotional

Devote time each day to reading God's Word. The Bible is filled with promises and wisdom to strengthen your trust in God. A daily devotional helps ground you in His truth and equips you to face challenges with faith and trust in Him. 

Whether you use a Bible app, a printed devotional book, or a Bible to read a passage from Scripture, take time each day to reflect on God's unfailing love and His guidance.

3. Journal Your Faith & Trust Journey

Writing down your thoughts and prayers can be a powerful way to reflect on God's faithfulness. Keep a journal to record your feelings, questions, and experiences as you trust Him more fully.

Look back at your journal throughout the year to see how God has answered prayers, provided direction, and strengthened your faith.

4. Surround Yourself with Encouragement

Trusting God is much easier when we are surrounded by a community of believers who encourage and uplift us. Whether through small groups, church gatherings, or personal friendships, lean on others who can remind you of God’s promises when doubt creeps in. Share your struggles and victories with them, and let them pray with you as you trust God together.

5. Let Go of Control

It’s easy to hold onto the illusion that we can control the outcome of our lives, but that's only an illusion. Each of us has experienced situations where we thought we had control, only to learn (the hard way) that we didn't. True peace comes when we let go and trust God’s plan. When you feel anxious about the future, remind yourself that God is already ahead of you. He knows what the coming months will bring and is already there providing for you. Surrender your need for control, and allow Him to lead you in the direction He has prepared for you.

6. Celebrate Small Wins and Moments of Peace

Each time you experience a sense of peace or witness God’s provision, take time to acknowledge it. Celebrate the small and large wins, knowing they are markers of God’s faithfulness. As you look back on the year, you’ll see how He has made your paths straight, even in the most uncertain moments.

And remember, creating a new habit takes time. If you're new to "casting your cares" onto the Lord, that's OK! Each day, include your cares, fears, anxieties, and more in your prayers. At first, this may feel strange, but keep up the practice, and you'll eventually see the results. You may start to feel more at peace and less anxious and see how the Lord has answered your prayers. 

Here again, writing down your prayer concerns and answers to prayer is helpful. It creates a record of your spiritual life and helps you grow as you look back at how the Lord has brought you through different situations and circumstances. 

Conclusion

As we start the new year, I’d like to challenge you to commit to trusting God with all your heart. We don't know what the year will bring, but we know God is already there, guiding us with His wisdom and love. 

When we lean on Him instead of our own understanding, He promises to direct our paths, provide for us, and sustain us. So, surrender your anxieties, rely on His strength, and trust His perfect plan.

Remember, the future is in God's hands; there is no better place to be.

God bless,

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A Christian’s Guide to New Beginnings in 2025

Welcome to the New Year! We’ve just started 2025! There’s something exciting about beginning a new year. It’s a time to start fresh with a brand new year. This is also a time of reflection, anticipation, and a renewed sense of purpose. 

The new year often brings with it a desire for change and growth. As Christians, this is not only about setting personal goals or resolutions but embracing the transformation that God offers each of us. We can find passages in the Bible that apply to this time of year. 

In 2 Corinthians 5:17 NKJV, we are reminded, "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold all things have become new.” The verse highlights the beauty of a fresh start in Christ—each new day, each new year, is an invitation to embrace the new life that Jesus offers. As we begin this year, let’s reflect on how we can start fresh in our faith and live out God’s plans for our lives with renewed passion and purpose. 

Embrace the Power of New Beginnings

The start of the new year is a powerful reminder that, in Christ, we can always begin anew. Just as the changing seasons reflect God’s creative work in the world, the new year allows us to embrace God’s renewing power in our lives. 

Isaiah 43:19 NKJV says, “Behold, I will do a new thing, now it shall spring forth; shall you not know it? I will even make a road in the wilderness and rivers in the desert.” 

This verse says that our Father is constantly at work, and every moment in Christ offers us a fresh start. Whatever struggles or disappointments we faced in the past year, we can lay them at Jesus’ feet and move forward in the confidence that He is making all things new. 

Practical tip: take a moment to reflect on the past year. What are some things you need to leave behind? Maybe it’s guilt, regrets, or past mistakes. Embrace God’s forgiveness through Christ and accept the renewal that only He can offer. Commit to moving forward with a clean slate. 

This doesn’t mean not taking responsibility. On the contrary, we must take responsibility for those things we’ve done and do what we can to rectify them. Seeks God’s guidance in this. 

Reflect on God’s Faithfulness in the Past Year

Before we look forward, it’s important to reflect on how God has been faithful in the year that’s just ended. No matter what challenges we faced, God’s provision, guidance, and love have been evident in our lives. Have you made it into the new year? Be sure to thank our Father! 

As we reflect on His faithfulness, we can see how He has been at work in our lives, even though we may have realized it. Philippians 1:6 NKJV encourages us, “Being confident of this every thing, that He who has begun a good work in you will complete it until the day of Jesus Christ…” We can trust that God has been shaping us and will continue His work in us this year. 

Practical tip: take some time to thank God for His faithfulness in the past year. Write down specific blessings, answered prayers, and moments when you felt His presence. Let this practice of gratitude set the tone for the year ahead. 

Set Christ-Centered Goals for the Year Ahead

Setting goals is natural at the beginning of a new year. However, as Christians, our resolutions should go beyond personal achievements or success. The new year is an opportunity to align our goals with God’s will and to pursue spiritual growth. 

Matthew 6:33 NKJV says, “But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.” When we choose to prioritize God’s kingdom, everything falls into place. Instead of only focusing on personal goals, we can set resolutions that reflect our desire to grow closer to God and live out His purposes. 

Practical tip: this year, consider setting goals that focus on your relationship with God and serving others. You can start by committing to the following: 

    • Increase time spent studying the Bible to grow in understanding. 

    • Serve your church or community. 

    • Commit to praying daily or joining a prayer group. 

    • Share your faith with someone who doesn’t know Christ. 

Be sure to seek God’s guidance in everything, including choosing resolutions and focusing on building your relationship with God. 

Commit to Spiritual Renewal Through Daily Habits

The beginning of a new year is the perfect time to start daily habits that us grow spiritually. As Colossians 3:16 NKJV says, “Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom, teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in y our hearts to the Lord.” Daily habits such as prayer, Bible study, and worship are essential for nurturing our faith. 

By incorporating spiritual disciplines into our daily lives, we open the door for God to work in us and transform us. These habits help us stay connected to God, grounded in His Word, and open to His guidance. 

Practical tip: choose one spiritual habit to focus on in the new year. Maybe consider starting each day with prayer and reading a chapter from the Bible daily or keeping a gratitude journal. Commit to making this habit a part of your routine, allowing it to strengthen your relationship with God. 

Let God Take the Wheel and Trust Him for the Year Ahead

In 2005, country singer Carry Underwood performed the song “Jesus Take the Wheel.” The song tells how a young woman miraculously survives a car crash. During the accident, the woman asks Jesus to take the wheel and save her from the road she’s on. This faith-based song has been extremely popular since it came out. It’s a reminder that we, too, can allow Jesus to “take the wheel” of our lives. 

We also see this theme in Proverbs 3:5-6 NKJV, which says, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths.” 

As we move forward into the new year, we are called to trust God with our plans and surrender our anxieties about the future. He knows what lies ahead and promises to guide us with His wisdom and love. 

Practical tip: take a moment to surrender your plans to God. Let go of any fears or worries about what the year ahead may bring. Trust that God will lead you and that His plans for you are good, even when things don’t go as expected. 

Take Action with Faith and Boldness

A new year is not just about setting intentions and goals; it’s about taking action. God has equipped us with everything we need to live boldly for Him. Ephesians 2:10 NKJV reminds us, “For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them.” 

We are created to make a difference in the world, to share the love of Christ, and to be a light in the darkness. This year, let’s step out in faith and take action, knowing that God is with us every step of the way. 

Practical tip: identify one area where you can live boldly for Christ this year. Maybe it’s reaching out to someone in need or getting involved in a ministry. Take the first step with faith, knowing God will empower and guide you. 

Always pray and seek God’s guidance before you step out in faith. His love and guidance are the keys to our success. 

A Year of Transformation in Christ

The new year is full of opportunities for transformation. As we step into 2025, let’s embrace the fresh start that God offers and trust in His plans for us. Remember that in Christ, we are new creations—freed from the past and empowered for the future. 

Philippians 1:6 NKJV gives us hope: “Being confident of this very thing, that He who has begun a work in you will complete it until the day of Jesus Christ…” God is with each of us, guiding us, and equipping us to grow, serve, and shine His light in the year ahead. 

Be sure to check out my Gumroad shop in a couple of days! I’m working on a 30-day devotional that goes with this post! I’ll let you know when it’s live in the shop! 

Let this year be the you commit to spiritual growth, embrace new beginnings, and live bodly for Christ. Take one step today—whether it’s praying, setting a goal, or trusting God with your plans. The journey of transformation starts now! 

God bless,

PS If you'd like to find apps for prayer, Bible study, etc., head over to our Resources page!